What the WaPo's National Organization for Marriage profile left out
August 30, 2009 6:19 pm ET by Jamison Foser
On Friday, I noted that the Washington Post devoted more than 2,000 words to a profile of National Organization for Marriage executive director Brian Brown -- without ever once quoting a criticism of Brown or NOM.
That's an appalling omission, but it only scratches the surface. The article was an extended mash note to Brown and his right-wing group, describing them as "rational," "mainstream," "sane," people put upon by shrill opponents who irrationally demonize them.
The Post headline set the tone for the fawning that followed:
Opposing Gay Unions With Sanity & a Smile
NOM Head Moves His Cause to D.C.
Then this:
But this country is not made up of people in the far wings, right or left. This country is made up of a movable middle, reasonable people looking for reasonable arguments to assure them that their feelings have a rational basis.
Brian Brown speaks to these people. He has a master's degree from Oxford, and completed course work for a doctorate in history from UCLA. He shoulders the accusations of bigotry; it's horrible when people say that your life's mission is actually just prejudice. He tries to help people see that opposing gay marriage does not make them bigots, that the argument should have nothing to do with hate or fear, and everything to do with history and tradition.
The reason Brian Brown is so effective is that he is pleasantly, ruthlessly sane.
Gee, isn't Brian Brown just swell? Isn't the National Organization for Marriage just swell? The Washington Post certainly thinks so -- and, though it couldn't find any space for criticism of Brown or NOM, it found room for this:
Bishop Harry Jackson, the Beltsville pastor who has been one of the most vocal gay marriage opponents in the area, sees a happy partnership between his followers and Brown's group. Jackson says Brown and NOM "have a sense of dignity about human beings. They simply believe that marriage between a man and a woman is the best for society. But they're not gay bashers."
Not gay bashers? Have a sense of "dignity about human beings"? Oh, really?
If the Post had the slightest interest in a balanced, fact-based assessment of NOM, that's where they would have included some criticism of the organization, and maybe even some facts that undermine Jackson's warm-and-fuzzy portrayal of the group. But the Post article contained nothing of the kind.
The Post did not, for example, mention that in a 2008 fundraising email, Brown approvingly quoted a description of the Prop 8 campaign as "the Armageddon of the culture war," and also included a quote comparing advocates of gay marriage rights to the devil:
As I close, I wanted to encourage you with a report from a pastors' conference call I had the chance to sit in on last week. With hundreds of pastors on the call, I was inspired by their passion and fervor. The mood was determined, confident, and upbeat.
Pastor Jim Garlow of Skyline Church in San Diego told the group of clergy: "One of the dumbest things the devil ever did was attack the institution of marriage." Rev. Jim Franklin from Cornerstone Church in Fresno told the group: "We must be consumed with a holy anger . . . this is the time to fight."
And so we press on. We are in the midst of the biggest fight for marriage our nation has ever seen. But we are confident that with God's help we will prevail. Thank you for standing with us in your prayers, financial contributions, and volunteer efforts.
Nor did the Post mention NOM board member Orson Scott Card, who has a history of rather colorful comments, like referring to homosexuality as a sin.
And like this:
"Only when the father became powerless or absent in the lives of huge numbers of children did we start to realize some of the things people need a father for: laying the groundwork for a sense of moral judgment; praise that is believed so that it can instill genuine self-confidence."
(Really? Mothers are incapable of "laying the groundwork for a sense of moral judgment"? Interesting.)
And this:
The dark secret of homosexual society -- the one that dares not speak its name -- is how many homosexuals first entered into that world through a disturbing seduction or rape or molestation or abuse, and how many of them yearn to get out of the homosexual community and live normally.
It's that desire for normality, that discontent with perpetual adolescent sexuality, that is at least partly behind this hunger for homosexual "marriage."
And this:
If America becomes a place where the laws of the nation declare that marriage no longer exists -- which is what the Massachusetts decision actually does -- then our allegiance to America will become zero. We will transfer our allegiance to a society that does protect marriage.
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And I don't mean that civilized Americans will move. I mean that they'll simply stop regarding the authority of the government as having any legitimacy.
Oh, and this:
Laws against homosexual behavior should remain on the books, not to be indiscriminately enforced against anyone who happens to be caught violating them, but to be used when necessary to send a clear message that those who flagrantly violate society's regulation of sexual behavior cannot be permitted to remain as acceptable, equal citizens within that society.
But The Washington Post insists NOM are not gay-bashers; no, they are sane and cheerful people just trying to preserve tradition. So the Post left out the bit about the NOM board member who thinks "homosexual behavior" should be illegal. It left out any mention of the NOM board member who announces that "our" allegiance to America will end if gay marriage is legal.
All of that -- the Card quotes, the Brown email -- was easily discovered in about twenty minutes of light Googling.
So how did a 2,000-word hagiography of NOM make it into the Washington Post?

















As for not being a "gay basher", there are two ways you can look at that;
If homosexuality is natural, then you're talking about people who have no choice in who they are, but who are denied something that those in the majority have. There's no legitimate issue of harm involved, so that is clearly unfair. It would be like saying;"Well, I believe that interracial marriage should be illegal because people react badly to it. You're gonna get these kids outta those marriages and they're gonna be all confused, and other kids are gonna pick on them, so we're better off just not going there at all."
If homosexuality is a choice, then they're liars who don't give a damn about the effects that their chosen lifestyle has on their loved ones. Dad's a devout Christian who wants to carry on the family name through his only child? "Forget grandchildren, I have a preference that's condemned by your holy book! Deal with it!" All the people who get beaten, mocked or disowned, who have lost friends, apartments or jobs, who have seen other gay people persecuted to the point of death since Biblical days and still choose to be gay must be psychotic.
Neither one of those options seems especially gay-friendly.
Apart from that what are a bunch of sexually dysfunctional and deranged people doing out there selling God - he's got enough problems with all the sexual abuses by catholic clergy that they do in his name. Seems a tad strange that the worst horrors and nightmares we have come from these sexually and morally broken people. At least it was good to see that here they were not on about the money - that only happens when you close some of their churches - even then the catholic ones go endlessly on about the money when the conversation is about people and children. It is easy to see where all these strange ideas about sexuality and crime come from - when you peddle it from the pulpit the pedophiles job is mostly done.
We prefer a global solution - one like that proposed for September 1 http://www.september12009.com/
Oh right, it doesn't.
The problem is that, because you believe that marriage should only be between a man and a woman, you are leaving out a certain percentage of our population, who, just like you, want to get married to the person that they love.
That doesn't hurt society, it makes it stronger, and it also brings forth more "family values" that guys like yourself like to talk about. I know several gay families, and shockingly, they're just like regular hetero families that I know (except that are 2 dads, or 2 moms).
That is beyond creepy, right there.
I do not think it possible to be considered a reasonable person if what you are looking for is assurances that your feelings, whatever they are, have a rational basis.
I think that is called self justification, not reasoning.
Taken straight, though, it's a disturbing piece of propaganda of the blackest sort, an effort, masquerading as journalism, to mainstream a man and an organization dedicated to spreading hate.
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I'm still waiting for that "reasonable argument" containing that "rational basis" against gay marriage though.
There is no legal basis to disallow gay people to get married, it's almost always religious, and allegedly, "moral" reasons. Whatever that means.
I've yet to see one person give me a good sound and rational legal reason as to why gay people shouldn't be allowed to enter into the union of marriage like I have.
There is the religious marriage, which is a holy union between a man and a women... different for various religions. In Catholicism for instance, both parties must be baptized.
Then there is a government marriage. It is used for calculating taxes, determining beneficiaries, providing health care, etc.
A church has every right to deny marriage, but it serves no purpose for government to deny marriage, and in essence the legal rights associated with marriage, to individuals of the same sex.
Again this is majority vs. minority. There are more and more churches and synagogues today who will perform and/or bless marriages in states where it is legal, and in other states the blessing for a commitment to love and honor each other can be granted.
That to me seems like a central issue in the debate. Too many churches and individuals are making statements without all the facts or at least qualifying those statements as only their views. If we are to say that religion doesn't condone same-sex marriage, then aren't we discounting literally thousands of religious leaders who have come out in support of gay marriage?