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Marc Rudov on O'Reilly Factor: "Men are depressed ... because men are allowing women to take over the world"

March 28, 2008 7:49 pm ET

Author Marc Rudov asserted on Fox News' The O'Reilly Factor that "[m]en are depressed, and it's their own fault, because men are allowing women to take over the world." He also told guest host Laura Ingraham: "I don't have a problem with women, Laura. I have a problem with little girls occupying adult female bodies. And any women who feel entitled to wining and dining and jewelry and free vacations are not adults."

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During the March 26 edition of Fox News' The O'Reilly Factor, guest host and conservative talk radio host Laura Ingraham interviewed Marc Rudov, whom she described as a "self-proclaimed relationship expert," on the eve of the premiere of his radio show on MarcRudovRadio.com. When Ingraham asked Rudov to explain "why men feel emasculated today," Rudov stated: "You know, you started talking about female happiness before, would women be happier and why our men are depressed. Men are depressed, and it's their own fault, because men are allowing women to take over the world," adding: "You know, female happiness is an oxymoron. When you go to the checkout in the supermarket, just look at the titles on the women's magazines. How many of them presume women to be happy? Not one. They're all saying, the key to happiness is more jewelry, more shoes, more liposuction and bigger implants."

After Rudov went on to assert that "most of the women who get [breast implants] are unhappy" and that "[e]ighty percent of women in this country are unhappily married, according to AOL and Woman's Day," Ingraham said: "I don't believe any of this. I just -- I don't believe any of this. I don't know what qualifies either of us to talk about relationships." Ingraham then asserted: "You seem to really have a problem with women in your website," to which Rudov replied: "I don't have a problem with women, Laura. I have a problem with little girls occupying adult female bodies. And any women who feel entitled to wining and dining and jewelry and free vacations are not adults." Ingraham then asked, "Do you pay for dates, Marc? Do you pay on dates or no?" Rudov replied: "Fifty-fifty, Laura ... Reciprocation, Laura. Women -- you know, if women -- if women are so entitled, Laura, if women are so entitled -- Laura, if women are so entitled and they're such delicate little flowers, we shouldn't have one running the U.S. Marines." He further stated: "Laura, when a woman feels entitled to anything, then she's not worthy of love, and she doesn't know how to give love. Women -- these kinds of women are takers."

Later in the segment, Rudov asserted: "When a woman wants to marry a man who's uglier than she is, she's doing it because she wants power and control." Ingraham replied: "OK. She's not really in love with him." Rudov concluded: "That's right. She wants a man who's going to do double backflips over her, so she can keep him under control so then she can cheat on him and get her sex with the hot men outside the home, Laura."

Rudov has appeared on Fox News programs on several occasions. For instance, after Sen. Hillary Clinton came in third in the January 3 Democratic caucuses in Iowa, Rudov said on Your World: "[W]hen Hillary Clinton speaks, men hear, 'Take out the garbage.' " During the March 10 edition of The O'Reilly Factor, when host Bill O'Reilly asked about the "downside" to a woman president, Rudov responded: "You mean besides the PMS and the mood swings, right?"

Rudov is the author of The Man's No-Nonsense Guide to Women: How to Succeed in Romance on Planet Earth (MHR Enterprises, 2004) and Under the Clitoral Hood: How to Crank Her Engine Without Cash, Booze, or Jumper Cables (MHR Enterprises, 2007). The "about the author" description that accompanies The Man's No-Nonsense Guide to Women at the online bookseller Amazon.com reads: "Marc Rudov is an investment banker and business consultant residing in Silicon Valley (Bay Area), California. Although formally educated in engineering and business, he possesses a vast informal education in relationships with women."

From the March 26 edition of Fox News' The O'Reilly Factor:

INGRAHAM: Joining us now from San Francisco is the self-proclaimed relationship expert Marc Rudov, whose radio show premieres tomorrow on MarcRudov.com. Marc, good to have you with us.

RUDOV: Pretty good. It's MarcRudovRadio.com, Laura.

INGRAHAM: Oh, MarcRudovRadio.com. OK. We got it.

RUDOV: Right.

INGRAHAM: So the big premiere is tomorrow. So tell us why men feel emasculated today?

RUDOV: First of all, I can't think of a better way to pay tribute to National Women's History Month than this segment. You know, you started talking about female happiness before, would women be happier and why our men are depressed.

Men are depressed, and it's their own fault, because men are allowing women to take over the world. You know, female happiness is an oxymoron.

When you go to the checkout in the supermarket, just look at the titles on the women's magazines. How many of them presume women to be happy? Not one. They're all saying, the key to happiness is more jewelry, more shoes, more liposuction and bigger implants.

And if you look at the reality of life in this country --

INGRAHAM: Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa. Marc, Marc, Marc, there's so much in here. I'm going to miss all your wonderful gems unless I interrupt you.

RUDOV: Of course.

INGRAHAM: First of all, I think you're talking about marketing to women. And if we got rid of all advertisements -- well, we wouldn't be on TV right now, so we got to give them a break.

And when you talk about breast implants, who do you think they're getting the breast implants for, Marc? The men who want the bigger-breasted women? Or are just women doing it on a fluke?

RUDOV: I think they're getting it for themselves, quite frankly.

INGRAHAM: Oh, OK, not for the men. The men -- the men aren't encouraging women to get that, Marc? OK.

fRUDOV: It doesn't matter.

INGRAHAM: Are you kidding me?

RUDOV: You know, if you really get to know women, you'll see women are doing it for themselves, by and large. And most of the women who get them are unhappy and insecure.

Look, let's look at the facts, Laura. Eighty percent of women in this country are unhappily married, according to AOL and Woman's Day. My colleague Susan Shapiro Barash just came out with a new book that said 60 percent of women cheat on their husbands.

INGRAHAM: Oh, I don't --

RUDOV: Women bring 70 percent of divorces.

INGRAHAM: First of all, I don't believe any of this. I just -- I don't believe any of this. I don't know what qualifies either of us to talk about relationships. I certainly am not qualified, believe me.

But Marc, I was looking through your website. You seem to really have a problem with women in your website. I mean, "Women are liars. Women are going to cheat on you. Women only want stuff and jewelry."

And I got to tell you, I think that from what I see in successful marriages is it's about giving to the other person. And you had a problem in your website about men who put women up on a pedestal.

RUDOV: Right.

INGRAHAM: And what's wrong with that? Women should do the same thing for men. What's wrong with that?

RUDOV: No, you shouldn't have pedestals. And let me -- let me backtrack on what you said before. I don't have a problem with women, Laura. I have a problem with little girls occupying adult female bodies. And any women who feel entitled to wining and dining and jewelry and free vacations are not adults.

INGRAHAM: Do you pay for dates, Marc?

RUDOV: I go halfs.

INGRAHAM: Do you pay on dates or no?

RUDOV: Fifty-fifty, Laura.

INGRAHAM: Oh boy, we wouldn't last long.

RUDOV: Reciprocation, Laura.

INGRAHAM: Fifty-fifty? Oh --

RUDOV: Women -- you know, if women -- if women are so entitled, Laura --

INGRAHAM: Oh, women are, like, dying across the country right now.

RUDOV: -- if women are so entitled -- Laura, if women are so entitled and they're such delicate little flowers, we shouldn't have one running the U.S. Marines.

INGRAHAM: OK. Well, Marc, here's my question to you. What's your definition of love?

RUDOV: Love is all about --

INGRAHAM: How do you express love to someone?

RUDOV: I will answer you, Laura. Love is about giving to the other person, caring about the other person.

INGRAHAM: Bingo.

RUDOV: Right.

INGRAHAM: Right. So -- so you're undercutting your whole argument.

RUDOV: Now, the other person --

INGRAHAM: Giving to the other person.

RUDOV: No, no, I'm not -- no, no, no, no. Laura, when a woman feels entitled to anything, then she's not worthy of love, and she doesn't know how to give love. Women -- these kinds of women are takers. So if you really had read my website --

INGRAHAM: Oh, I've read it, believe me.

RUDOV: -- you would see that I believe in equality --

INGRAHAM: Some amazing titles on there, Marc.

RUDOV: That's right.

INGRAHAM: What's -- under the what hood? What's your book title?

RUDOV: If you read my website, Laura --

INGRAHAM: Under what hood? Why don't you say it for our audience?

RUDOV: Under the Clitoral Hood, right.

INGRAHAM: Thank you. Thank you.

RUDOV: Under the Clitoral Hood, right.

INGRAHAM: I wasn't going to say that.

RUDOV: So do you want -- Laura, do you want to just bring up a title or do you want to talk about it?

INGRAHAM: Well, Marc, here's the problem. I think we have a lot of people who are very narcissistic and they're focusing on their own needs. And all I can say is, from what I see, successful couples are giving to each other. And they're sacrificial.

RUDOV: Well, when a woman wants to marry -- when a woman wants to --

INGRAHAM: I don't think there's anything wrong with that.

RUDOV: When a woman wants to marry a man who's uglier than she is, she's doing it because she wants power and control. Because she knows that this man --

INGRAHAM: Oh, OK. She's not really in love with him.

RUDOV: That's right. She wants a man who's going to do double backflips over her, so she can keep him under control so then she can cheat on him and get her sex with the hot men outside the home, Laura.

INGRAHAM: Marc, we have to do a whole hour on this topic with you. We didn't have enough time. I would absolutely like it.

RUDOV: I'd love to, Laura. Tune into my radio show tomorrow, Laura.

INGRAHAM: I got to go back to that book title. All right. And directly ahead -- we appreciate it, Marc.

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    • Author by robotchubby (March 28, 2008 8:04 pm ET)
         

      "When a woman wants to marry a man who's uglier than she is, she's doing it because she wants power and control.  She wants a man who's going to do double backflips over her, so she can keep him under control so then she can cheat on him and get her sex with the hot men outside the home, Laura."

      Speaking from experience, Marc?

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    • Author by SFnomad (March 28, 2008 8:13 pm ET)
         
      The man is a jackass
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    • Author by tman418 (March 28, 2008 8:15 pm ET)
         
      I don't fully understand how you can compare the looks of men and woman on the same scale. I mean, to judge who is "sexy" or good-looking, you have to see who is a good-looking male and good-looking female.

      So what does he think about men who marry "uglier" women? Oh, they're doing it out of love and compassion? Equal, reciprocal love?
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    • Author by louie (March 28, 2008 9:03 pm ET)
         
      it's hard to make laura ingraham look good
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    • Author by tbone (March 28, 2008 9:06 pm ET)
         

      Repressed homosexual or just straight up misogynist - you be the judge.

      And bless you (NO, NO, NO DAMN YOU) MMFA for reminding me that Ingraham is occassionally lucid.

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    • Author by jim359 (March 28, 2008 9:30 pm ET)
         
      Who is this WHACKJOB ???????????
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      • Author by Col. Harlan Sanders (March 29, 2008 1:18 am ET)
           
        Jim, I think he's the same guy that was selling Cocoa Krispies about 30 or 40 years ago.
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        • Author by mary59 (March 29, 2008 10:48 am ET)
             
          I'm not sure what kellog was saying here.  "look kiddies, here's a real doofus looking cave man with red hair that likes this cereal."  but he's probably nicer than marc rodov luddite guy; he obviously would not have been selected in the cave man era to reproduce.
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    • Author by juliajayne (March 28, 2008 9:48 pm ET)
         
      Gee, I wonder why this Rudov guy is attracting so many infantile females? Hmmmn. I guess he's finding his own level. Whatever. This guy is a straight up misogynist imo. Maybe that's why he's having such lady troubles. Really, who would want to be with him? He's ugly inside and out. Creep.
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      • Author by mary59 (March 28, 2008 11:55 pm ET)
           
        Oh, but Julia, if you would just tune into his radio program and peek under his hood, you would see that his plugs and points are all burnt out, his cylinders are mis-firing, and he's not playing with a full deck.  So you being a woman naturally will have a lot of sympathy for him, no?   ;-)
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        • Author by Col. Harlan Sanders (March 29, 2008 1:23 am ET)
             

          I think Juliajayne has a little crush on him.It's pretty obvious. "Who him? He's gross! I hate him!" (Dear Diary, Mark threw a rock at me today...OMG!I think he wants me to pay for a date!)

          Anyway, his "women in control" angle just doesn't play in my manly world.I denounce and reject him.

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          • Author by juliajayne (March 29, 2008 2:39 pm ET)
               
            Hey, the thought of this guy being within a length of the state of Texas from my clitoral hood IS gross. I feel dirty just saying that.
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            • Author by Col. Harlan Sanders (March 30, 2008 2:06 am ET)
                 
              Really in denial, aren't you, JJ? You're not fooling anyone.
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              • Author by juliajayne (March 31, 2008 2:27 pm ET)
                   
                Hey Col., if I really liked him I would kick him in the shins like I did my 7th grade crush.
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            • Author by snoopy (March 30, 2008 1:50 pm ET)
                 

              would this be a good time to make some crack about a white hood on a white hood? ;)

              That darn outside voice is really trying to get me in trouble today!

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      • Author by captfoster2 (March 29, 2008 9:44 am ET)
           

        Julia,

        In part, you said...."Really, who would want to be with him? He's ugly inside and out."

        This alone might certainly explain Rudov's being asked by BillO to be on his pathetic little show!

        Small ugly (inside and out) impish minds think alike.......

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        • Author by captfoster2 (March 29, 2008 9:46 am ET)
             
          As for Laura..... why she didn't walk off in disgust makes me wonder about her.  I mean, I know that they could believe that this is all some sick inside joke, but unless otherwise..... yikes!
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    • Author by pbg (March 28, 2008 10:26 pm ET)
         
      Even Laura couldn't stand him.

      Did you notice she said

      "Do you pay for dates, Marc?"

      When asked to repeat, she said

      "Do you pay on dates, Marc?"

      ...which is a very different thing.

      I suspect it was A freudian slip on Laura's part, but she was asking, shall we say, the Elliott Spitzer question?
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      • Author by mary59 (March 28, 2008 11:56 pm ET)
           
        I saw that too.  Good catch, she probably did mean that first wording.
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    • Author by Leftwingcenter (March 28, 2008 10:44 pm ET)
         

      Ingraham ridiculing a knuckle-dragging "women are inferior" Neanderthal.

      Probably the last time she works on Fox... ;0)

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    • Author by pete592 (March 28, 2008 11:22 pm ET)
         
      Look no further than Marc Rudov for a prime example of what's wrong with our media today.  Someone in the radio industry is willing to give a microphone and airtime to this misogynistic scumbag.  
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    • Author by spooky3 (March 29, 2008 12:00 am ET)
         
      Sounds as if someone's mommy didn't wuvvvv him enuf.
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    • Author by tcall20043320 (March 29, 2008 1:38 am ET)
         

      A man of quality is NOT threatened by a woman's Equality.

       

       

      And what would Laura Ingraham know about marriage?

       

      I love how these winger females like Ingraham and Coulter have so much to say about traditional relationships, etc. but I don't see any of them with husbands and/or kids! 

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    • Author by sportsguydave (March 29, 2008 10:07 am ET)
         

      LMAO...

      One of the funniest posts I've read in awhile... Why do I get the idea that the only relationships this guy's ever had came at $1.99 a minute or $500 a night??

      What a putz.

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    • Author by rojo7449 (March 29, 2008 1:34 pm ET)
         
      Never thought I would enjoy a Laura Ingraham interview.  She did a great job with this man.  He speaks only of his own personal experiences, and his listeners will be men who share his viewpoints.  I'm glad to know he's out there...I think my ex-husband would be a fan.
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    • Author by moondancer (March 29, 2008 1:44 pm ET)
         
      I hope your wife or girlfiend makes a pair of earrings out of your testicles.  You don't deserve them, jackass.  Or should I say mule?
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    • Author by worrierking (March 29, 2008 2:17 pm ET)
         
      The real reason men are depressed is the image of "real" men on display on wing-nut TV and radio.

      "Real" men like George W, his Darkness, Dick Cheney, Bill, Rush and Glenn.

      No wonder the rest if us feel inadequate.
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    • Author by donaldmaddog5642 (March 29, 2008 4:48 pm ET)
         
      I don't know why I'm throwing away these few seconds to comment on this SILLY topic. We have a fool of a man and a (fill in your own blank) of a woman discussing stuff that is only fit for check-out line tabloids. Laura is the (fill in your own blank) stand-in for Bill-O, who does not do interviews, but yells and screams through her guest's remarks and acts like the (fill in your own blank) she is. She is, in effect, giving the example to what her guest is saying. We have a word for that, but I think it applies only to males: a bully. Is there a female version of that term? Bulliatrix? Just another anti-Hillary bite, as far as I see it. I also am somewhat ashamed of MMFA for bringing this piece of non-news to our attention. Perhaps my sense of humor in on vacation.
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    • Author by cpinva (March 29, 2008 5:02 pm ET)
         

      i don't get the impression it's a real radio program, notice it's on the internet. i'm sure "......he possesses a vast informal education in relationships with women.", but does getting turned down by every woman you've ever approached really qualify you in a good way?

      myself, i don't blame him at all. if there's enough stupid people out there willing to pay money to listen to/read him, can you blame him for taking advantage of that? nope, not at all.

      "the fault dear brutus, lies not within our stars, but within ourselves."

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    • Author by tcmartin1304 (March 29, 2008 8:15 pm ET)
         
      Marc Rudov is actually a classic liberal feminist, who believes in equality between the sexes. Very straight forward. Not one commenter here has supported his anti-prostitution stance against female entitlement in dating/marriage rituals. What does that say about y'all?

      Anyone here know what a misandrist is? Well, at least 8 commenters have called Marc a misogynist - the oldest trick in the book. Grow up. Gender equality is not just about women's equality issues. It is about those pertaining to women AND men also - the usufruct privileges women enjoy at men's expense are being challenged by Marc, which is why men want to listen to him, and buy his books.

      Marc is a person with feelings, and the way y'all have just reacted, with extreme hostility to his call for equality, in effect, attempting to marginalize, and dehumanize him for a LEGITIMATE BEEF, speaks volumes about this website. I am a liberal, but I am not one of you. Goodbye.
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      • Author by mary59 (March 31, 2008 10:37 am ET)
           
        Rudov bleats phony generalizations about women to make a buck, and this is some great truth?!  Goodbye honey...don't let the screen door hit your *ss on the way out...
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    • Author by ufleirx (March 30, 2008 11:07 am ET)
         

      "Men are depressed, and it's their own fault, because men are allowing women to take over the world. You know, female happiness is an oxymoron."

      Wow, as a white male and therefore de facto one of the rulers of the world by following backwards Rudov's logic and general preception, I feel entitled to address this statement. First let me say I will be adding the line one of the ruling junta to my resume as I have overlooked a valuable experience set for my next job search. A job search that will begin immediately as I am more than willing to give the job whose description is "to take over the world" to whoever wants it -- truthfully, running the world has been terribly stressful with incredibly long hours and I am looking forward to opening some doors to other opportunities, taking an extended vacation, and sending some time with the family. Although, my wife at that time will be a member of the ruling class -- so no plan is perfect, maybe we can catch some time during the power transition. Back to the point I have "had this job" for going on 30 years and whoever wants it -- it is yours.

      Now on the subject of oxymorons or more correctly moron's I think Rudov has that covered. So I'll end here.

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      • Author by ufleirx (March 30, 2008 11:09 am ET)
           
        Oh yeah one more thing -- what does this guy have against jumper cables?
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        • Author by princeofwheels (March 30, 2008 1:52 pm ET)
             
          You can't trust jumper cables..they are always starting something.
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        • Author by Easy to refute wingnuts (March 30, 2008 2:54 pm ET)
             

          what does this guy have against jumper cables?

          He's probably been accused of battery... 

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    • Author by princeofwheels (March 30, 2008 3:06 pm ET)
         

      He has a problem with "little girls occupying adult female bodies". So do a lot of child molesters. What is he trying to say about himself?

      This humanoid should be cut open and examined...by women scientists naturally.

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      • Author by wzwriter (March 31, 2008 12:22 pm ET)
           

        This humanoid should be cut open and examined...by women scientists naturally.

        They examined his head, and found nothing.....   :-)

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    • Author by wzwriter (March 31, 2008 8:32 am ET)
         
      I get the feeling that the closest Marc Rudov has gotten to having a woman in his life is the Dallas Cowboys Cheerleaders poster he hung on the ceiling over his bed....
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    • Author by wzwriter (March 31, 2008 8:35 am ET)
         

      "Marc Rudov is an investment banker and business consultant residing in Silicon Valley (Bay Area), California. Although formally educated in engineering and business, he possesses a vast informal education in relationships with women."

      His "vast informal education in relationships with women" probably consists of countless numbers of women turning down his advances in singles bars.  This guy seems to be displaying an awful lot of anger towards women....

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    • Author by NiceguyEddie (March 31, 2008 10:43 am ET)
         

      Personally I'm depressed that knuckle dragging neanderthals like Marc Rudov not only still exsist but they they are repeatedly given a venue to speak from and apparently have some semblence of an audience.  His viewpoints, and the fact that they still play well to ANYONE is what depressess me.

      It's not surprising though - Conservative marginalize intelligent women all the time, so his view are probably based only on what he knows: Whatever's left after intelligent, tlented and edictaed women are brushed aside.  (IOW - most of the women in the Fox News lineup.)  Men like him are vermin.  Vermin that give REAL men a bad name, while marginizing REAL WOMEN and denigrating those that are left.  Would that I could live long enough to see humanity free from the influences and opinions of such low-lifes.

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    • Author by wzwriter (March 31, 2008 11:57 am ET)
         
      I just did a Google search to try and find out more about Marc Rudov.  Not surprisingly, I couold not find any information at all to indicate whether this guy is now or ever has been married......
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    • Author by obamacan (March 31, 2008 3:18 pm ET)
         
      another Fixed News opportunity to make us "look over there" while the economy is crashing and our national guard is dying in Iraq.
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