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Right-wing media mock Reid for linking unemployment to rise in domestic abuse

Doocy, RedState, Hoft suggest Reid will abuse his wife if he loses his Senate seat

February 23, 2010 1:20 pm ET — 212 Comments

Right-wing media figures have seized on comments Senate Majority Leader Harry Reid made linking unemployment to a rise in domestic violence by suggesting that if he loses his re-election bid, then Reid, whose mother was a victim of domestic abuse, will subsequently become abusive toward his wife. Moreover, on Fox & Friends, Laura Ingraham dismissed a 2004 study, which found that "the rate of violence increases as the number of periods of male unemployment increases," to claim that Reid's comments were "lunacy" and "stigmatize the unemployed"; in addition to the 2004 study from which Reid was apparently citing, several other studies and experts indicate that there is a link between abuse and unemployment.

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Right-wing mock Reid for linking domestic abuse by men and unemployment

Doocy: "I wonder how abusive he would be if he's out of work after this next election." On Fox News' Fox & Friends, after hosts Steve Doocy, Brian Kilmeade, and Alisyn Camerota aired a clip of Reid's "stunning" and "controversial" comment, Doocy remarked, "I wonder how abusive he would be if he's out of work after this next election." [Fox & Friends, 2/23/10]

Ingraham dismisses a "2004 study about unemployment and abuse" that "some staffer gave" Reid to claim his comments are "lunacy," "insane," and fly "in the face of, obviously, personal responsibility." In a later segment on Fox & Friends, after Kilmeade asked what Reid is "building off of," Fox News contributor and radio host Laura Ingraham said:

INGRAHAM: Well, I guess some staffer gave him some 2004 study about unemployment and abuse in the United States. And he said, oh, I've run out of ideas and I'm saying the same thing all over again all the time and it's not working, so I'm going to throw out this domestic abuse line.

First of all, it totally -- yeah, it totally flies in the face of, obviously, personal responsibility. Men shouldn't hit women regardless if they're rich, poor, out of work, in work.  And it also stigmatizes the unemployed. I mean, because you're unemployed, you're going to whack, you know, your wife across the face? I mean, it's just -- it's so insane, and I don't know how much lower Harry Reid can go, but I imagine that Robert Gibbs and someone at the White House today is going to have to come forward and once again try to clean up Harry Reid's mess. And here we go again. I mean, this is just -- it's lunacy. But this is, you know, where his head is at.

Jim Hoft: "Harry's wife ought to take this as a warning come November." In a February 22 blog post on Gateway Pundit, Jim Hoft wrote: "While he 'was home dealing with domestic abuse' (at his home?) Harry Reid said domestic abuse has gotten out of hand. His approval rating at home is at 33% after all." After citing a portion of a February 22 The Hill blog post that quoted Reid's remarks, Hoft wrote, "Harry's wife ought to take this as a warning come November." [emphasis in original]

RedState.com: "Soon-to-be ex-Senator Harry Reid ... arrested for fear of domestic abuse after he loses his job in November 2010." RedState.com posted a Photoshopped picture portraying a mug shot of Reid holding a sign that says, "Soon-to-be ex-Senator Harry Reid ... arrested for fear of domestic abuse after he loses his job in November 2010." It also linked to The Hill's blog post about Reid's comments.

Drudge: "Harry Reid Unleashed." On his website, Matt Drudge linked to The Hill blog post with the headline, "Harry Reid Unleashed: 'Men, when they're out of work, tend to become abusive.'" From the Drudge Report:

Conservative media suggestions that Reid will become abusive come despite Reid's defense of his mother from domestic abuse

In his autobiography, Reid discussed protecting his mother from abuse. In his book The Good Fight, Reid wrote of an experience in which he and his brother restrained their father after he struck their mother. On Page 52, Reid wrote:

One day, when I was about fourteen, my dad obviously had had something to drink. It was summer, because I was home from my first year away at high school in Henderson. It was daytime. He was being mean to my mother. He started hitting her. That was it. I just looked over at my brother and said, "Larry, let's take him." So we did. We jumped him. I took him high, Larry took him low, and we pinned him to the floor. He was like a rock. My father was a big man, and I'd always been afraid of him. "Get offa me!" he yelled as he kicked and writhed.

[...]

He wasn't a bad man. But I'd be damned if he was going to do that to my mother again. It was the first time that we had ever done anything like that. We'd never been big enough. We didn't want to hurt him, we didn't want to hit him, but we took him down and weren't about to let him up.

Studies link abuse and unemployment, show increased abuse toward women when their partners are unemployed

Study: Rate of violence against women with unemployed partners is higher than those whose partners have stable employment. A 2004 study by Michael L. Benson and Greer L. Fox -- funded by the National Institute of Justice -- found that "the rate of violence increases as the number of periods of male unemployment increases" and "[t]he rate of violence among couples with high levels of subjective financial strain is roughly three and a half times as high as it is among couples with low subjective strain." From the study:

Two indicators of economic distress also are related to the risk of intimate violence against women. First, the rate of violence increases as the number of periods of male unemployment increases. In couples in which the male is always employed, the rate of violence is 4.7 percent. The rate rises to 7.5 percent when the male experiences one period of unemployment and to 12.3 percent when he experiences two or more periods of unemployment between waves. Second, a strong relationship is found between subjective feelings of financial strain and the likelihood of violence against a woman in an intimate relationship. The rate of violence among couples with high levels of subjective financial strain is roughly three and a half times as high as it is among couples with low subjective strain (9.5 versus 2.7 percent).

New England Journal of Medicine study: "Women at greatest risk for injury from domestic violence include those with male partners who ... are unemployed or intermittently employed." A 1999 study published in The New England Journal of Medicine concluded that "[w]omen at greatest risk for injury from domestic violence include those with male partners who ... are unemployed or intermittently employed." It stated: "We also found that intermittent employment and unemployment (both recent and long term) of the partner were risk factors. Possibly, the stress of finding work or of unemployment (alone or in combination with other factors) increases the risk that a man will physically abuse his partner."

Study: Women who are unemployed also have great risk of abuse. Another 2004 study funded by the National Institute of Justice also found a link between women's employment and socioeconomic status and their risk of abuse." From the study:

There is also significant variation in risk based on employment status. First, risk is generally lowest among those who are retired (78 % report no violence) and those who are homemakers (62.2 % report no violence). Second, risk of isolated violence is generally similar across employment types (with the exception of those retired and homemakers). Third, risk of parent-partner violence is greatest among those who report "other" as their employment status. Fourth, risk of multifaceted-multirelationship violence is greatest among those who are unemployed (6.9 %) and generally low among those who are employed full-time (2.8 %) or in the military (0.0 %). Combined with the comparatively low percentage of unemployed women that report no violence (44.2 %), this may reflect the effect of economic disadvantage on risk of violence.

Experts, reports link current recession to a rise in domestic abuse

National Network to End Domestic Violence, Jane Doe Inc. heads: "Economic stresses often lead to more frequent abuse." In a December 2008 op-ed in The Boston Globe, Mary R. Lauby, executive director of Jane Doe Inc., and Sue Else, president of the National Network to End Domestic Violence wrote: "Economic stresses often lead to more frequent abuse, more violent abuse, and more dangerous abuse when domestic violence already exists. Domestic violence programs report that victims experience an increase in abuse in part because out-of-work abusers have more opportunity to batter. Rhode Island, for example, has recently seen a 25 percent increase in felony-level domestic violence crimes. Victims end up with fewer opportunities to contact programs for help, attend support groups, or get away from the batterer."

The Atlantic's Davidson: "[P]rofessionals in many states [say] that the frequency and severity of abuse they've been seeing has increased significantly." The Atlantic correspondent Christina Davidson wrote in December 2009 that "[s]olid statistical analysis of the recession's impact on domestic violence won't be available for a year or more, but I've been told by professionals in many states that the frequency and severity of abuse they've been seeing has increased significantly." She quoted two experts on domestic violence and social services who agreed that recessions exacerbate abuse. From Davidson's Atlantic article:

While the recession has made it harder for victims to leave their abusers, it can also lead to greater violence. Solid statistical analysis of the recession's impact on domestic violence won't be available for a year or more, but I've been told by professionals in many states that the frequency and severity of abuse they've been seeing has increased significantly.  

Brian Namey, communications director of the National Network to End Domestic Violence, reports that his organization has been receiving similar feedback. "Anecdotally, we've been hearing of shelters across the country being maxed out to capacity, also that the frequency and severity of abuse is getting worse."

Except in rare cases, like some of the sensationalized incidents of familicide this year, financial stress does not create domestic abuse. One DV counselor in Indiana describes the recession as "fuel to the flame of domestic violence."

As [Connie] Sgarlata [assistant executive director of Family and Children Services of Central Maryland] explains: "Stress related to the economy is increasing stress at home. As stress increases at home, the tendency for violence increases. "

Namey agrees: "We know the economy does not create abuse, but it makes it worse. While shelters across the country have increased demand for beds, at the same time resources from the government and from corporate donors are down. Demand is up, support is down."

Domestic abuse shelter CEO: Economy is having an "alarming impact" on abuse victims. In April 2009, Susan Miller, the CEO of a shelter for victims of domestic violence in Kansas City, MO, wrote in an op-ed for The Kansas City Star that the economy is having an "alarming impact" on abuse victims and that "research indicates that unemployment puts domestic violence victims at an even higher rate of increased lethality." From Miller's op-ed:

Rose Brooks Center has provided shelter and services to victims of domestic violence for the past 30 years. As the current CEO, I feel compelled to write this letter to provide insight on the alarming impact the economic stress is having on the women and children we serve.

We all know that our nation is facing one of the most serious economic challenges it has seen in decades. We also know that this economic crisis has caused the unemployment rate to be the worst it has been in years, causing financial strain on everyone.

What many people don't realize is that during these bad economic times a batterer's level of violence towards his victims escalates and becomes more deadly.

While the economy does not create or cause domestic violence, research indicates that unemployment puts domestic violence victims at an even higher rate of increased lethality.

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    • Author by southerngal (February 23, 2010 1:29 pm ET)
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      Reid deserves to be mocked for such a stupid link in the first place. There is no excuse nor any rationalization for domestic abuse, period.
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      • Author by benjr (February 23, 2010 1:34 pm ET)
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        Right. . . a "stupid" link supported by evidence and scientific studies. The link seems to be documented, so I'm not sure why you think it is stupid. As for your claim that somehow Reid was "rationalizing" domestic abuse, I'm not sure where you got that one from. What possible reason would Reid have to justify or rationalize domestic abuse? That simply doesn't make any sense. I think you're inferring something from Reid's remarks that isn't there.
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        • Author by southerngal (February 23, 2010 1:36 pm ET)
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          The standards for abuse should be no different whether you happen to work or not. If you, or Harry Reid, want to give abusers some sort of "out" for their actions, fine. I don't.
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          • Author by pros2pros2940 (February 23, 2010 1:45 pm ET)
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            It's not giving them an out.

            It's saying that prolonged unemployment can lead to abuse.

            Fact
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            • Author by southerngal (February 23, 2010 1:48 pm ET)
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              Prolonged unemployment leads to a lot of things, most of them not so good. It is still no excuse.
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              • Author by pros2pros2940 (February 23, 2010 2:49 pm ET)
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                Guess some don't see the difference between something the can lead to abuse and excusing it.

                Must be wingnut blocker
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                • Author by southerngal (February 23, 2010 2:54 pm ET)
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                  Adults are responsible for their behavior, period. If you think it's productive to give cover to abusers by excusing their behavior due to the stresses of being unemployed, fine. I don't accept the same cop out. Many people are faced with extraordinary hardships and some pretty awful circumstances and they don't take it out by beating their spouse.

                  But I guess those that do can thank the likes of Harry Reid, and the liberals here, for a little soothing comfort for their violent actions. After all, if they were only working.....
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                  • Author by benjr (February 23, 2010 3:59 pm ET)
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                    I'll say it again. NO ONE IS EXCUSING ABUSE. There is a benefit to studying the factors that contribute to the causes of domestic abuse. Can you guess what the benefit might be? Using that data to prevent domestic violence. To think that studying the causal factors somehow equates to excusing the behavior, or at least rationalizing it, is simply your own false inference.
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                  • Author by mikehuck1976 (February 23, 2010 5:44 pm ET)
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                    "Adults are responsible for their behavior, period." - RightOn

                    I completely agree with you. And, maybe I am missing some of what Reid said, but I did not take it that he was suggesting anything other than adults taking responsibility for their actions. I don't think recognizing the factors that lead to certain facts within a society necessarily are excusing anything.

                    Having said that, I do not get Reid's point completely. I don't think the government should be looking to lower unemployment because it leads to spousal abuse. I think they should be looking to lower unemployment because our society as a whole wins when unemployment is low.
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                    • Author by southerngal (February 23, 2010 5:51 pm ET)
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                      But mike, it's the contributing factors that I don't buy as any type of excuse. Once you open that door then you have to include the contributing factor of a incredibly nagging wife too, I mean can't you say the same thing?
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                      • Author by worrierking (February 23, 2010 11:06 pm ET)
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                        A contributing factor is not an excuse. Do you know the difference?
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                      • Author by albertsenj (February 23, 2010 11:52 pm ET)
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                        this person is a troll - responding to these posts just encourages them and leads the thread off on non-productive tangents.
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                  • Author by overmars jr. (February 24, 2010 5:30 am ET)
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                    Complete nonsense. Where are you getting this "rationalization for abuse" crap?

                    Willful stupidity at his finest.
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                • Author by srichardson (February 23, 2010 3:52 pm ET)
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                  Must be. It doesn't take too much intelligence to understand that he was just stating a statistical fact! He was in no way givng abusers an out for their actions. Right On, I usually enjoy your posts bc you add a little spice to the conversation on this blog (not that I agree with most of what you say, but I do agree you have the right to say them) but this time I think you are just looking for a fight.
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                  • Author by southerngal (February 23, 2010 3:58 pm ET)
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                    I am always looking for a good discussion, but I don't accept any excuses or any label you want to ascribe to rationalizing bad behavior by adults, especially something as horrible as domestic abuse. Sorry, if that makes me "spicy" or looking for a fight, so be it.
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                    • Author by loonz (February 23, 2010 4:22 pm ET)
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                      You're never looking for a "good discussion". Since your first moniker you've been disrupting threads with your retarded spin on everything.
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                      • Author by southerngal (February 23, 2010 4:24 pm ET)
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                        No, offering to educate liberals on their screwed up view of the world should be enlightening to you. If you choose ignorance, that's your fault.
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                        • Author by loonz (February 23, 2010 4:27 pm ET)
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                          You guys live in some alternate universe. Reid stated a fact and conservatives attack him. Why do you guys hate facts?
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                          • Author by southerngal (February 23, 2010 4:34 pm ET)
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                            "I met with some people while I was home dealing with domestic abuse. It has gotten out of hand. Why? Men don't have jobs." by Harry Reid.

                            That's a fact? Uh huh, that's an excuse.
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                            • Author by loonz (February 23, 2010 4:40 pm ET)
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                              It is. High unemployment rates leads to higher crime rates.
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                            • Author by DellDolly (February 23, 2010 4:41 pm ET)
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                              Professionals in the field say the same thing that Harry Reid said, and they aren't making any excuses nor offering rationalizations for this behavior.

                              Neither is Harry Reid.
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                            • Author by mikehuck1976 (February 23, 2010 5:47 pm ET)
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                              I think I agree on your premise, RightOn. I do think unemployment can be a contributing factor to a rise in spousal abuse. However, I do not see what Reid's point is. If a man only hits his woman when they are low on money, he is just as big of a POS as a guy who hits his woman because she caught him with another woman. I also think if you are a woman beater, you will eventually find a reason to beat your woman. Job or no job.
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                              • Author by southerngal (February 23, 2010 5:53 pm ET)
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                                Mike, Fair enough. As I said, I just don't believe that anyone who abuses their spouse is entitled to ANY contributing factors. They made the choice, they did it. There was nothing else in play, only their decision to hit their wife. It deserves no qualifiers, none.
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                                • Author by worrierking (February 23, 2010 11:11 pm ET)
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                                  Every human behavior has contributing factors.

                                  Theft, abuse, violent attacks and murder all have contributing factors.

                                  Contributing factors are not excuses.
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                          • Author by albertsenj (February 23, 2010 11:58 pm ET)
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                            I believe that Jon Stewart answered that when he said: 'facts have a liberal bias'.
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                        • Author by skatscan5624 (February 23, 2010 5:50 pm ET)
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                          It's Jesus loving right wingers in trailer parks that cause the most abuse among women.
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                        • Author by catfish1968 (February 23, 2010 10:18 pm ET)
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                          Please point to a discussion where someone was "educated" by you.
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                        • Author by blk-in-alabam (February 24, 2010 2:26 am ET)
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                          Educate?You have been saying through this thread,that educated people who have studied demestic violence do not know what they are talking about.
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                        • Author by hurricaneyankee52983 (February 24, 2010 12:24 pm ET)
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                          actually wrong on it's you that need enlightenig from that FUBARED up far RIGHT WING GARBAGE you spit out .
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                  • Author by mikehuck1976 (February 23, 2010 5:45 pm ET)
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                    I don't disagree with you, srichardson. But, I am not sure what Reid was getting at, either.
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              • Author by txthinker (February 23, 2010 4:04 pm ET)
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                No one was making an excuse - he was making a STATEMENT. A statement based on PROVEN FACTS.
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                • Author by southerngal (February 23, 2010 4:09 pm ET)
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                  You and the other 87 liberals have said the same thing, I don't care what you choose to call it, it's an excuse.
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                  • Author by Old_Benjamin (February 23, 2010 4:19 pm ET)
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                    Right - cause you don't understand words have meanings.
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                  • Author by JohnnyAppleseed (February 23, 2010 5:33 pm ET)
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                    Agreed. Stress of any kind can lead to abuse....for those who are mentally unfit to control their own actions. Whether its economic, relationship based, emotional...etc. Doesn't matter. I don't need someone to study reasons why someone would hit their wife or kids, I just want to know who it is and lock him up.
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                  • Author by skatscan5624 (February 23, 2010 5:52 pm ET)
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                    Your repeated arguments is like this exchange:

                    "The Yankees scored more runs than the Red Sox"

                    "That's no excuse the Red Sox lost!"
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                  • Author by hurricaneyankee52983 (February 24, 2010 12:26 pm ET)
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                    then you are a complete idiot, wrong on.
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                  • Author by hurricaneyankee52983 (February 24, 2010 12:26 pm ET)
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                    then you are a complete idiot, wrong on.
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            • Author by indictgwbush (February 23, 2010 3:03 pm ET)
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              Don't confuse the troll with facts!
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          • Author by Logan (February 23, 2010 1:47 pm ET)
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            That's a ridiculous claim to make, considering that all he did was cite a study that says there's a link between increased domestic abuse and joblessness. That's the whole story there.

            Now, the right-wingers like to take shots across the aisle to score political points, so they would like people like you to think it's a justification, when it's a statement of correlation. So in fact, if there's a direct correlation between unemployment and domestic abuse that suggests higher unemployment leads to more domestic violence, then the opposite might hold true as well, that less unemployment leads to less domestic violence. Again, this is not Reid's work, this is an outside study, and further, it doesn't claim that unemployment is the only cause of domestic violence, just a factor in some cases.
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          • Author by rumpleteasermom (February 23, 2010 1:55 pm ET)
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            Right ON are you an idiot or just trying to be contrary?

            Reid points out a scientifically verified link between unemployment and abuse, and you think he is excusing the abuse rather than indicting the unemployment - that says a lot about where your mind is on the subject actually.



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            • Author by southerngal (February 23, 2010 1:57 pm ET)
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              You can insult all you want if you feel superior. Fact is it is a stupid link and a stupid excuse for domestic abuse. I know liberals love to find all sorts of extraneous irrelevant excuses for blaming behavior, but this is asinine. More nonsense from Harry Reid's mouth
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              • Author by sloucho84 (February 23, 2010 2:07 pm ET)
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                Will you stop using the word "excuse"? It's a wrong and pigheaded word to use here.
                The point is, someone who is economically stable and has a propensity towards domestic abuse is more likely to act on that propensity if they are unhappy, depressed, frustrated, worried, etc.
                The statement wasn't about the link between unemployment and abuse as much as unemployment and mental wellbeing.
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                • Author by southerngal (February 23, 2010 2:10 pm ET)
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                  A propensity towards domestic abuse? All you did was tell me that excuse is the absolute correct and proper term to use.

                  Nobody needs to tell me or anyone else the ills of unemployment, and nobody needs to offer some rationalization or excuse for domestic violence - or justify the propensity one might have for it. Ridiculous.
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                  • Author by clams casino (February 23, 2010 2:15 pm ET)
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                    So you think that the point of Reid's comment was to provide an excuse for domestic abusers? You're an idiot.
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                    • Author by southerngal (February 23, 2010 2:17 pm ET)
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                      Either that or make a really bold statement about how awful unemployment is. Gee, what a revelation.

                      Absolutely, it is nothing more than an excuse. And as someone who always whines to me about being insulted, you are an idiot.
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                      • Author by NothingButTheTruth (February 23, 2010 3:11 pm ET)
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                        Usually I stay away from insults, but Right On...you do sound pretty dumb with your comments to this article entry...

                        Reid pointed out a proven FACT. A horrible fact, but it's true. Facts don't force people to do ANYTHING; they illuminate negative/positive trends so that people can avoid/seek them.

                        I would think that you'd be more angry that these talking heads have implied that Reid would commit domestic violence on his wife.

                        You'd have to be an idiot NOT to notice the increase in men killing their families/themselves during this economic downturn..

                        Matter of fact, the link btw unemployment/poverty and domestic violence is fairly obvious..I don't even need a study to see that.
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                        • Author by southerngal (February 23, 2010 3:17 pm ET)
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                          It's nothing more than an excuse, that's all it is. You and all the blame happy liberals can insult me all you want, I don't care.

                          There is no excuse, justification, or rationalization for domestic abuse, ever. Period.
                          When we grow up as a society and start laying down that gauntlet, in those terms with no qualifiers such as unemployment, then those that suffer from it may understand they are not to blame either, as many do.
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                          • Author by rumpleteasermom (February 23, 2010 9:46 pm ET)
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                            Okay guys, give up on him. Right ON apparently doesn't understand the difference between 'rationalization' and 'explanation'. If he can't grasp a concept as simple as that one, he is never going to understand Reid's point.
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                            • Author by hurricaneyankee52983 (February 24, 2010 5:01 pm ET)
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                              WRONG ON feeds from the gospel of LIMBAUGH and BECK and there is no hope for him.
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                      • Author by JoeSixpack (February 23, 2010 3:17 pm ET)
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                        You'll have a point the day a domestic abuser is acquitted in court because of his lack of employment. Until then, you don't. These are purely legal issues which will not be affected by Reid's speech one way or the other. It's only useful as an "excuse" if it is actually, effectively employed by an individual to avoid the consequences of his behavior. You seem to be making an entirely illogical leap, suggesting that Reid's accurate remarks will somehow lead to some sort of immunity for abusers. How do you think that will work? Do you really think Reid's speech will lead law enforcement agencies and judiciaries across the nation to neglect domestic abuse cases? Will defense lawyers start to say "Hey, it's not his fault! Harry Reid said so!," and actually get away with it?

                        Domestic abuse rates increase as unemployment rates increase. Statistical fact, proven multiple times. The truth doesn't stop being true just because you don't want to hear it.

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                      • Author by blk-in-alabam (February 24, 2010 2:36 am ET)
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                        Senator Reid was listing one of many reasons that unemployment bad.
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                  • Author by captain_mike (February 23, 2010 10:30 pm ET)
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                    Apparently you believe it is better to just stick you head in the sand and ignore the proven factors that will cause the scumbags who are willing to abuse another human being to act out more often?

                    It's not about arguing about who has the highest moral high horse to ride around decrying the abusers, it is about trying to protect the victims before someone abuses them and you can ride in with your sanctimonious attitude and throw their ass in jail.

                    Meanwhile, the victim is already a victim in your solution of throw their asses in jail, but she probably asked for it anyway, right?

                    You are like people who advocate not telling teenagers about the dangers of unprotected sex because that will just encourage them to have more sex. Oh, wait, that's probably exactly what you believe.
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                • Author by indictgwbush (February 23, 2010 3:19 pm ET)
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                  This idiot(write off) should be ignored; his only purpose here is to spew moronic faux news talking points.
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            • Author by mrhebert74 (February 23, 2010 7:23 pm ET)
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              Right ON are you an idiot or just trying to be contrary?
              -rumpleteasermom
              It's a false dichotomy, rumple... In my estimation both are true.
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          • Author by indictgwbush (February 23, 2010 3:02 pm ET)
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            Even when the abuser is one of your favorite sports stars or you favorite "action star", like Steven Segal?
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          • Author by mikehuck1976 (February 23, 2010 5:41 pm ET)
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            I did not take it as giving anyone "an out". I simply took it as a sociological observation. And one that seems pretty common sense to me. I think you are getting something different out of his remarks than I am.

            However, I do find it laughable that Ingraham does not think the unemployed are already stigmatized as...you know, unemployed.
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            • Author by southerngal (February 23, 2010 5:47 pm ET)
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              It may be some sociological observation, but Reid is essentially saying that men are abusing their wives because they have no job. In other words, he is giving an excuse for the behavior. There is simply no other way to look at it.

              Now I know he did it for political reasons, as do most politicians when they make remarks as stupid as this is. But it still is an excuse, a justification of sorts, a rationalization. It's ridiculous. People who abuse their spouses are not entitled to any reasons or contributing factors for their violence, none, period. To do so is not only disrespectful to the victims, but allows "cover" to the perpetrator. Perhaps a small cover, but as I said, they deserve none whatsoever.
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              • Author by mikehuck1976 (February 23, 2010 5:52 pm ET)
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                OK. I see your point. I also do not believe there is any justification for it. If someone can justify beating their wife, they will find a reason eventually. I also don't get what Harry's point is. I don't think wife-beaters should be one of the reasons the government wants to improve the unemployment problem. How about because our economy is better when unemployment is lower? I do not think "Do it for the Wife Beaters" is a very good slogan for an economic message.
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                • Author by southerngal (February 23, 2010 5:54 pm ET)
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                  No argument, thank you for your thoughtfulness.
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                • Author by rumpleteasermom (February 23, 2010 9:52 pm ET)
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                  mikehuck said:
                  I also don't get what Harry's point is.


                  Reid was speaking on the floor of the Senate in support of the jobs bill. He was outlining the benefits of passing it and this was just one benefit he has a personal reason to feel strongly about.

                  The really humourous thing about the way he has been attacked and about this exchange here is that there actually WAS something objectionable about the comments he made, it just wasn't the link between domestic abuse and unemployment.
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              • Author by worrierking (February 23, 2010 11:18 pm ET)
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                You could spend another decade posting here but I doubt you'd top your performance here in this thread. You're the Babe Ruth of impenetrable thick headedness.

                This is your Sistine Chapel.

                Right On or Tommy or whoever you are, take a bow, you've earned it.
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        • Author by mari2jj (February 23, 2010 11:42 pm ET)
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          You really have to be ignorant about the problems of domestic Violence to not understand that for some couples, unemployment, unequal jobs, stress about money and a multitude of other problems have no effect on the incidence of Domestic Violence. While no one claims unemployment is an excuse for Domestic Violence, our Law Office that represents battered women
          has observed that unemployment and financial stress greatly contribute to the incidence of domestic violence. NO ONE is trying to excuse Domestic Violence due to unemployment or financial problems. However, there is a correlation and those are just the facts. When someone denies that these are contributing factors, they are just stupid or deliberately obnoxious. There is not even any pattern of domestic violence that can be traced to a particular party affiliation or religious persuasion or financial group. Mostly, the behavior is related to a problem with rage or a "pile on" of too many problems all at once. No excuse but those are the facts. But I never expect right wind nuts in my own party, you know, like Ingraham, Doocey and Hoft from my own party to have enough smarts to ask the experts before they make this an anti-Reid talking point. Because folks, it just might be your daughter who becomes a victim.
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      • Author by OverlappingElvis (February 23, 2010 1:37 pm ET)
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        Whaa? This is a public health issue - should we also not talk about links between economic inequality and any other kind of violent crime? After all, there is no excuse or rationalization for gang violence, but that doesn't mean we can't draw a connection between it and low-income communities.
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      • Author by Panic Man (February 23, 2010 1:42 pm ET)
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        Awwww, someone's bitter about his heroes being called out for acting like the children they are.

        Would you like a crying towel, wrong OFF?
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      • Author by DellDolly (February 23, 2010 2:23 pm ET)
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        Professionals in the field say the same thing that Harry Reid said, and they aren't making any excuses nor offering rationalizations for this behavior.

        Neither is Harry Reid.
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        • Author by southerngal (February 23, 2010 2:28 pm ET)
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          Liberals will always sniff out an excuse for behavior so they can wiggle out of responsibility, for someone, for something. This is just more of that.
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          • Author by justawful (February 23, 2010 2:30 pm ET)
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            I was hoping that one day you would take responsibility for your awful posting.
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          • Author by Old_Benjamin (February 23, 2010 2:46 pm ET)
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            So when trying to understand a societal ill such as domestic abuse in order to perhaps alleviate any extraneous circumstances which may contribute to said ill, one is making excuses? Wow - just wow.
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            • Author by southerngal (February 23, 2010 2:50 pm ET)
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              So if the guys goes back to work, the violence stops? Is that what you mean by "alleviate any extraneous circumstances which may contribute to said ill"?

              Wow - just wow.
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              • Author by Old_Benjamin (February 23, 2010 3:12 pm ET)
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                Ummm not at all. Studies such as these don't focus on individual instances. It's an attempt to understand a societal issue. You know - big picture stuff.

                Your attitude reminds me of Simple Sarah during the campaign when asked about AGW...

                "You know there are - there are man's activities that can be contributed to the issues that we're dealing with now, these impacts. I'm not going to solely blame all of man's activities on changes in climate. ... The point is: it's real; we need to do something about it."


                But it DOES matter what causes it so you can find solutions.

                Same thing here, to understand contributing factors in domestic abuse and to hopefully mitigate those on a societal level. NOT to make an excuse for an individual who commits the abuse.

                I'll go out on a limb here and say, I don't think the vast majority on the left would want to excuse a man for baeting his wife. I know I don't.
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                • Author by southerngal (February 23, 2010 3:21 pm ET)
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                  "But it DOES matter what causes it so you can find solutions"

                  What about a nagging wife? Does that contribute as well? What about suggestive clothing worn by a woman who is raped? Does that contribute as well?

                  How far do you want to go with these "contributing factors"?
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                  • Author by Old_Benjamin (February 23, 2010 3:39 pm ET)
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                    Your aversion to knowledge and facts is clear. Makes you a good con.

                    Not that it will get through - but the examples you gave are ones whereby the victim is blamed. Not a liberal attribute that I've seen. They are also individual circumstances. Studies like the one being discussed look at the BIG PICTURE. Not to excuse the behaviour but to better understand and perhaps mitigate it's occurrences. I mean, a study such of this would be a good reference during times of high unemployment in order to, as a society, be prepared for a particular ill outside of the strictly financial consideration of those unemployed. You know, perhaps increasing funding to organizations that work at domestic violence prevention, fund shelters, etc.

                    How's that snow in Copenhagen?
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                    • Author by southerngal (February 23, 2010 3:45 pm ET)
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                      You talked about contributing factors and I explicitly gave you a couple more. I wasn't assigning blame or anything of the sort.

                      You can't accept the analogy or defend yours so you cling to an old argument you lost, once. That is pretty pathetic.
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                      • Author by Old_Benjamin (February 23, 2010 3:48 pm ET)
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                        You lost and you can't admit it and I enjoy that about you.

                        At the same time, you make me sad because you can't make a proper analogy or read for comprehension. Try Sylvan.
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                        • Author by southerngal (February 23, 2010 3:55 pm ET)
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                          You're right. As long as I live, and as much as I read from people like you on this website, I just cannot comprehend the art of how a liberal can shrink from responsibility and blame the rain for their actions.

                          Saying losing a job is a valid excuse for beating the hell out of one's spouse by dodging the word "excuse" and replacing it with "contributing factors" comes easy for liberals, but the rest of us know it's baloney. And I love that about you.
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                          • Author by Old_Benjamin (February 23, 2010 3:59 pm ET)
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                            So did it snow on Christmas 2009 in Copenhagen? No! RFLMAO!

                            One more time - no one says it's an excuse. Trying to understand something does not mean excusing it. DUH.
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                            • Author by southerngal (February 23, 2010 4:03 pm ET)
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                              You can try and "understand" all you'd like why a pig assaults hiw own wife, I'd rather get her the hell away from him and lock him up. Oh, and then tell her you are just trying to "understand".
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                              • Author by Old_Benjamin (February 23, 2010 4:12 pm ET)
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                                Ahhh - there it is.

                                You would rather react AFTER a woman is abused rather than trying to provide an environment whereby such an assault is unlikey (never happens would be better, but probably not realistic). I'm sure the abused spouse would be quite thankful that her abuser is locked up rather than never being struck at all by him.
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                                • Author by southerngal (February 23, 2010 4:17 pm ET)
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                                  So you still naively believe that if he just had a darned job he would lay off the smacking her around? You are really a moron if you believe that.

                                  As I said, it's a valid excuse to you. You just admitted it. And all your whining previously was just for what, show? To argue with me? Wow - just wow.
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                                  • Author by Old_Benjamin (February 23, 2010 4:23 pm ET)
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                                    So you still naively believe that if he just had a darned job he would lay off the smacking her around? You are really a moron if you believe that.


                                    Nope - never stated anything like that. You keep talking about specific instances.

                                    As I said, it's a valid excuse to you. You just admitted it. And all your whining previously was just for what, show? To argue with me? Wow - just wow.


                                    Sorry, where did I state it's a valid excuse?

                                    You would rather react AFTER a woman is abused rather than trying to provide an environment whereby such an assault is unlikey (never happens would be better, but probably not realistic). I'm sure the abused spouse would be quite thankful that her abuser is locked up rather than never being struck at all by him.


                                    That's waht I thought, I stated no such thing.
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                                    • Author by southerngal (February 23, 2010 4:37 pm ET)
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                                      Now you can add liar to your list of accomplishments here, to word parser and sore loser. You most certainly did say that if a man has a job their would be no abuse > "I'm sure the abused spouse would be quite thankful that her abuser is locked up rather than never being struck at all by him"

                                      You can lie and backtrack, but it's all there. Wow - just wow, I mean WOW.
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                                      • Author by Old_Benjamin (February 23, 2010 4:52 pm ET)
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                                        So prevention is excusing something. WTF?

                                        See, try and stay with me, if a husband hits his wife and then claims it was cause he's unemployed, that would be an excuse. And I don't think anyone posting here thinks that individual should receive a free pass based on his employment situation.

                                        Trying to figure out ways to prevent abuse happening in the 1st place is what I was referring to. See - not an excuse, but understanding.

                                        Now I'm sad again cause you will be too stupid to realize how foolish you just made yourself look.


                                        Sore loser? But YOU were the one that claimed it would snow in Copenhagen on Christmas day and it didn't, so I'm the loser?

                                        Whatever you say dummy. That isn't a pejorative, but a rather a term praising your intellect. See, I can make up my own meanings to words too!
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                                        • Author by southerngal (February 23, 2010 5:25 pm ET)
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                                          More liberal "understanding", in another words trying to find an excuse for bad behavior because to a liberal there has to be one. Just has to be! Blame something, anything for why a man hits his wife across the face. Excuse. You can package it any way your liberal sensibilities can drum up, I don't care. It's still an excuse.
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                                          • Author by Old_Benjamin (February 23, 2010 7:31 pm ET)
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                                            One more time dunceski - no one is making excuses. Just wanting to try and find ways to prevent it from happening in the first place. If you think locking people up after an offense is committed is the best way to deal with crime - take a look around. The US has the highest rates of incarceration in the industrialized world (perhaps behind Russia) and the US has very high recitavism (sp?) rates compared to other western countries, so I don't think you've given much thought at all to the issue. You just wanna lock up the bad man and everything will be ok. But that doesn't always mitigate future crimes.
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                                          • Author by hurricaneyankee52983 (February 24, 2010 5:18 pm ET)
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                                            WRONG ON's mindset ,LIBERALS are responsible for all the evil in this country.
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                                  • Author by Johaely (February 23, 2010 6:58 pm ET)
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                                    What Reid's talking about is not longtime abusers, but people who beocme abusive becuase of unemployement.
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                    • Author by mikehuck1976 (February 23, 2010 5:55 pm ET)
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                      I just don't think calming down wife-beaters is a good reason to try and fix the unemployment issue. Not a great rallying cry is all I'm saying.

                      Do weak men tend to beat their women when they feel emasculated because of issues in their life like money? Sure. I just don't think that is necessarily the reason we should be using for fixing the unemployment issue. There are many others that I think are much more useful reasons.
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                  • Author by mari2jj (February 23, 2010 11:48 pm ET)
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                    Actually using a "nagging wife for a "reason" to abuse is what my mother would call me on when I tried to excuse breaking the rules. So when I tried to dodge responsibility, she would always punish me AFTER saying, "That is an excuse not a reason" Nagging wife is an excuse NOT a reason.
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                  • Author by overmars jr. (February 24, 2010 5:36 am ET)
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                    Seriously... how have you managed to stay alive this long? You are intentionally, willfully, painfully, tragically ignorant.

                    And by the way, advanced idiot, listing clothes "contributing factors" would be blaming the victim. This is not. Once again, the right false equivalency meter is set to explode.

                    EPIC FAIL.
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                • Author by JoeSixpack (February 23, 2010 3:23 pm ET)
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                  Exactly. For whom are the dreaded liberals "making excuses?" Is RO really trying to suggest that Harry Reid, or liberals, or anyone thinks an unemployed man should be allowed to beat his wife with impunity? It's a prima facie absurdity, but gosh oh gee, we must be very wary of those nefarious libs and their excuse making!
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                  • Author by overmars jr. (February 24, 2010 5:38 am ET)
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                    Oh, but wait... according to the guy who believes liberals are a lower form of life to his ilk, there is no other way to see it!!

                    Ahem.
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          • Author by peace4all (February 23, 2010 2:47 pm ET)
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            yes, and conservatives NEVER do that. i mean why would you never condone braking the law under the excuse of making us safe. you know, by using torture which is clearly illegal and which was clearly done. you nutbags love to talk about personal responsibility except when it comes to your own behavior.
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            • Author by southerngal (February 23, 2010 2:55 pm ET)
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              Nice rant. Come back when you catch up to the topic here.
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              • Author by peace4all (February 23, 2010 3:03 pm ET)
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                oh, i am caught up. i just like to point out your constant hypocrisy on the issues. reid has a study that show a correlation between unemployment and domestic abuse and you try to use it as an argument for not taking personal responsibility. however, the point is actually that high unemployment affects the very fabric of our society and causes stress which can make people act out in ways they would not normally. that is not making an excuse it's addressing the problem by understanding that if we can solve the unemployment issue then we will also be helping to solve some domestic violence issue. maybe you should try using some deep thought instead of have the depth of a sheet of paper.
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                • Author by southerngal (February 23, 2010 3:07 pm ET)
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                  I already said unemployment leads to a lot of negative things, but that is no excuse for beating your spouse, no matter how you liberals slice it. Tell that to a woman who walks in a shelter bruised and beaten, "well is your husband out of work, because that probably led to it". Is that supposed to make her feel better or ease her beaten and bruised life? I doubt it.
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                  • Author by peace4all (February 23, 2010 3:19 pm ET)
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                    no, it has nothing to do with making any one feel better or worse. it has to do with understanding the cause of the problem. if you understand the cause you can try and do something to prevent it in the future. the ones who have already acted will be punished as they should be. but that in no way means that we don't try and alleviate the problem in any way we can. that's how you move forward to making things better. not with the attitude of just ignore the underlying cause and build more prisons.
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                    • Author by southerngal (February 23, 2010 3:25 pm ET)
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                      The best way to alleviate the problem is by refusing to accept any excuses, justification or rationalization for the abuse, period. No cover, no cop out, no extenuating circumstances, no tough times, no lapse in judgment, no slip up, no I'm so sorry, no nothing.
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                      • Author by foghornleghorn (February 23, 2010 4:14 pm ET)
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                        Life must be fine and dandy in your little utopia, Tommy. One of these days you'll open your eyes to the real world.

                        This is your best intellectually dishonest thread yet. Gold medal for Tommy!!!
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                  • Author by vhw28672478 (February 23, 2010 3:20 pm ET)
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                    Fox news is a joke
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                  • Author by whatIthink (February 23, 2010 3:24 pm ET)
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                    You're an idiot. No one's making excusing for domestic violence. If I point to a study that says that depression leads to excessive eating, I'm not defending excessive eating. I'm pointing out that depression is one of many factors involved with excessive eating and maybe it's time to do something about it. By Harry Reid pointing to a study saying unemployment leads to higher domestic violence, he's not excusing or defending domestic violence. You're attitude of "yeah, well we all know unemployement leads to all sorts of bad things, we shouldn't use it as an excuse" is as stupid as it is simplistic. The way I see it is that unemployment is one of many factors that lead to domestic violence and maybe by highlighting that connection, something can be done to remove at least one thing that contributes to domestic violence, unemployment. Your faux concern about victims of domestic violence is a disgrace. How about instead of trying to win some sort of ideological point, you maybe focus on something positive, like how to remove at least one factor that leads to domestic violence instead of throwing around baseless and untrue accusations of people trying to somehow excuse domestic violence.
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                    • Author by southerngal (February 23, 2010 3:26 pm ET)
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                      "No one's making excusing for domestic violence"

                      Yes you are, if you are too stupid to see it is exactly that, don't lash out at me.
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                    • Author by southerngal (February 23, 2010 3:28 pm ET)
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                      "like how to remove at least one factor that leads to domestic violence"

                      What if you tell the wife to stop nagging, or start doing exactly what her abusive husband wants? Don't you think that removes the factors leading to domestic violence?

                      I cannot believe how ignorant some of you are on this? Amazing.
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                      • Author by whatIthink (February 23, 2010 3:45 pm ET)
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                        What if umployment was removed as another excuse for domestic violence? So it would be one less justification excuse for people to use? That's the gist of my argument. If you read into that that I'm so how excusing domestic violence, then you really are an idiot.

                        You're arguing about the end problem, but not about what could be addressed to remove some of the building blocks that are used as an excuse for that problem.
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                        • Author by southerngal (February 23, 2010 3:46 pm ET)
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                          Because, idiot, I do not accept "building block" excuses for violent actions. You might, I don't care. I don't.
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                          • Author by peace4all (February 23, 2010 4:04 pm ET)
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                            of course you don't. your mind is as closed as an airtight safe. people like you will always be a blight on this country and it's true values. but your so blind you will never see it. we can only hope that you will go extinct like the dinosaurs.

                            until then, i hope the weather is good on your planet.
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                      • Author by rumpleteasermom (February 23, 2010 10:00 pm ET)
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                        Your emphasis on nagging wives is starting to make you look a tad misogynistic. You know that, right?
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                    • Author by D-Man_Scientist (February 23, 2010 11:42 pm ET)
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                      You guys sure love to hurl insults at each other.

                      What I see as the big problem here is that actions have consequences, and regardless whether or not Harry Reid intends to give abusers an excuse for their actions(I don't think he does), he has no control over how his statements are perceived, and used, by others.
                      It is the abuser who will latch onto this stat, making it an excuse or a justification for his actions, regardless of what Reid intended in the first place. As a result, a simple statement of fact can be twisted into an excuse for evil behaviour by the already sick mind of an abuser.
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                  • Author by mrahen (February 23, 2010 4:55 pm ET)
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                    Who here has condoned domestic abuse? You can't deal with a problem without understanding some of its precipitators. Are you seriously are saying that identifying a problem is an excuse?
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                    • Author by DellDolly (February 23, 2010 4:58 pm ET)
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                      No, he's saying what he's saying because it was a good way to derail the conversation away from the ridiculous mocking of Senator Harry Reid by the rightwing media.
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                    • Author by bruce1ace (February 23, 2010 5:17 pm ET)
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                      If someone is prone to being an abuser, any "stresser" in their life may trigger that behavior. You don't need a study to understand that.
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                      • Author by southerngal (February 23, 2010 5:27 pm ET)
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                        Or be used to excuse the behavior. It's still the abuser's sole responsibility, job or no job.
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                        • Author by mikehuck1976 (February 23, 2010 5:57 pm ET)
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                          I agree. In my experience, wife-beaters are weak men who feel emasculated for a variety of reasons. They will find a reason to smack her eventually. Rich men hit their wives, too.
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                  • Author by mari2jj (February 23, 2010 11:53 pm ET)
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                    Sorry my friend but understanding reasons for any behavior promotes good treatment and the ability to disrupt this sort of behavior. Our Church had a seminar on the effects of unemployment on family life. It was very useful in a high unemployment area. So just cool it and stop jumping to conclusions that are clearly inappropriate and have not one thing to do with any statement made here.
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          • Author by indictgwbush (February 23, 2010 3:27 pm ET)
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            Oh you mean behavior like unbridled greed,having a "WIDE STANCE' in a bathroom stall,sending suggestive e-mails to 16 year old pages, spying on people without a warrent(before 9-11-01),grandstanding over the dead bodies of our military,while short changing them every way possible(haliburton). Is that the "behavior" you're refering to? Oh I'm sorry, that's the behavior of reichwing lowlives like yourself!
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          • Author by DellDolly (February 23, 2010 4:14 pm ET)
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            Professionals in the field say the same thing that Harry Reid said, and they aren't making any excuses nor offering rationalizations for this behavior.

            Neither is Harry Reid.
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            • Author by southerngal (February 23, 2010 4:23 pm ET)
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              Harry Reid is a shameless political hack, and he ought to be ashamed for saying what he did, about men not having jobs and that is why they are abusive, that has him justifiably mocked.

              Ingraham is dead on with this one.
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              • Author by loonz (February 23, 2010 4:33 pm ET)
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                Only people who are mindless (conservatives) would think he should be ashamed for laying out the facts. I don't know what's wrong with you people.
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                • Author by southerngal (February 23, 2010 4:40 pm ET)
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                  I already debunked your "facts" baloney above. What "facts" did he lay out?, he made a blatant pathetic excuse for domestic violence. Read what he said.
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                  • Author by loonz (February 23, 2010 4:42 pm ET)
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                    How did you debunk the studies done on this issue?
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                  • Author by DellDolly (February 23, 2010 4:43 pm ET)
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                    Professionals in the field say the same thing that Harry Reid said, and they aren't making any excuses nor offering rationalizations for this behavior.

                    Neither is Harry Reid.
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                    • Author by cugagcmu805031 (February 23, 2010 5:31 pm ET)
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                      It involves research using statistics and other research tools, so it scares some conservatives. You betcha!
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                    • Author by southerngal (February 23, 2010 6:00 pm ET)
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                      DollySue,

                      Please reboot your brain, it keeps sending signals to your fingers typing the same bit of nonsense over and over. Unplug it for 60 seconds, plug it back in and see what happens.

                      I don't expect much more actually, but it might you a tad less annoying.

                      Oh never mind.
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                      • Author by mrhebert74 (February 23, 2010 7:30 pm ET)
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                        That's surprising from the guy who has fifty posts on this thread with one "idea" in them.
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                      • Author by DellDolly (February 23, 2010 10:53 pm ET)
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                        If you keep spouting the same nonsense, there's no reason for me to change the definitive answer that destroys your nonsense!

                        And yes, I know, it's frustrating to you when your argument is debunked, and when it's easily debunked, like in this case, it's got to be even more annoying.

                        Too bad, so sad.
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                      • Author by overmars jr. (February 24, 2010 5:42 am ET)
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                        Please reboot your brain, it keeps sending signals to your fingers typing the same bit of nonsense over and over.


                        IRONY ALERT!
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                      • Author by hurricaneyankee52983 (February 24, 2010 5:29 pm ET)
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                        wrong on, DELDOLY has a brain and shows it whweever she posts, unlike you who show only ignorance and stubborness in your posts.
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                        • Author by MaineiacMan (February 24, 2010 9:00 pm ET)
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                          LOL...yeah! She shows an ability to type and then retype the same thing over and over and over
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                          • Author by DellDolly (February 24, 2010 9:48 pm ET)
                               
                            In this thread, yes, I copied and pasted the same thing 4 times. It's not something I normally do, but it is something that was totally appropriate to do here!

                            I show my abilities on a regular basis. Everyone knows this, even if people of your ilk don't like it. Too bad, so sad.

                            Professionals in the field say the same thing that Harry Reid said, and they aren't making any excuses nor offering rationalizations for this behavior.

                            Neither is Harry Reid.


                            Unless professionals in the field of domestic abuse are giving abusers an excuse, then neither is Senator Harry Reid giving them an excuse. It's pretty simple. It's the definitive way to stop the argument that Sen Reid was providing an excuse for abusers. Since it's the definitive way to stop the argument, I used it multiple times.

                            And don't think that everyone else didn't notice that no one was able to refute that argument.

                            Professionals in domestic abuse to create excuses for abusers. Neither did Sen Reid. He didn't deserve to be mocked by the rightwing media for linking the rise in unemployment to a corresponding rise in domestic abuse.
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              • Author by hurricaneyankee52983 (February 24, 2010 5:33 pm ET)
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                the sentence should stop after the words LAURA INGRAHAM is dead.
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      • Author by rhun1220 (February 23, 2010 4:41 pm ET)
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        If Ried would have said that statistically, more suicides occur in the winter, I suppose you would assume that he is giving an excuse for people to commit suicide. Or perhaps if he claimed more injury car accidents occur in wet weather conditions, you would assume he means to excuse those that plow into people in the rain. It's ridiculous logic.
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        • Author by southerngal (February 23, 2010 5:29 pm ET)
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          No, but I am not blaming winter for any suicide. Nor would I blame the wet weather for a car accident, one is taught to be more careful and drive to the conditions. Do you think a judge would say accept that excuse to let you off paying the fine? No.
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          • Author by DellDolly (February 23, 2010 10:56 pm ET)
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            What a tool.

            Have you never seen signs that say "slippery when wet"? Have you never seen a grooved road? Have you never seen ditches on the side of the road, or cut-outs on bridges to let water drain from them?

            If you think that highway designers don't try to MITIGATE the risks caused by precipitation, you're a fool.

            Just like recognizing the affect that unemployment can have on domestic abuse is wise, using experience as a guide is wise.
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            • Author by D-Man_Scientist (February 23, 2010 11:53 pm ET)
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              Recognzing the effect that unemployment can have on domestic abuse is indeed wise, but a prominent figure proclaiming it in a public forum serves no good purpose.

              Seeing this as a justification in their warped mind, an abuser can then say to himself "Well, there you go. No wonder I beat my wife. It's cuz I got no job! I'm not evil, I'm just unemployed."

              The speaker, in this case Harry Reid, has absolutely no control over how his information will be perceived, perverted and co-opted by the end (ab)user for their own purpose.

              Reid's comments were probably well-intentioned, but irresponsible.
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              • Author by DellDolly (February 24, 2010 9:50 pm ET)
                   
                He has no obligation to temper his remarks because of a fear that some abuser might use it as an excuse.

                Abusers have plenty of excuses already. It's never going to be the fault of someone who voices some of the causes for increases in domestic abuse. You're wrong.
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    • Author by whatIthink (February 23, 2010 1:48 pm ET)
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      Wait, I can make wild assertions too, watch:

      Due to high levels of unemployement, more and more unemployed people are turning to cable news networks, such as FOX, for an unending stream of information. Due to the high level of fear and the scare tactics used by commentators and straight news readers of Fox News, more and more of the unemployed are feeling insecure, disenfranchised and fearful. With the heightening of their fear, they have no outlet for their aggressive feelings, which unfortunately manifests itself in a rise in domestic violence. Feeling scared and having a sense of no control over what is happening to them, people take their frustations out on those that are closest to them. Fox News will, and does, disavow any link between their fear laden coverage and the rise in domestic violence, but there has been no comprehensive study conducted between the two, therefore Fox News cannot conslusively state that they are not responsible. Until either Fox News takes responsibility for it's fear mongering and it's link to domestic violence, the escalation of violence in the home will only continue.

      See? I made a wild accusation, gave a tenuous link between Fox and violence and then put the ball in Fox's court by putting the burden of proof on their shoulders to show why THEY are not responsible. See how easy this is? Fox does this crap everyday.
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    • Author by trees251 (February 23, 2010 3:03 pm ET)
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      Interesting discussion. Entire article is derailed and discussion becomes a defense of Harry Reid instead of Fox. Very clever, Right ON. Also deceptive and pointless. Either defend Fox or go away.
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    • Author by Russ139 (February 23, 2010 3:06 pm ET)
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      Ingrahm never actually says he's incorrect... she only laughs at his statement.

      So juvenile they are on that program.
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      • Author by MaineiacMan (February 23, 2010 3:47 pm ET)
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        Ummm....as most people do on here with Glenn Beck, Russ. I'll say it for you, Harry Reid is incorrect. MOST men do not become violent when unemployed. How can you defend that? Did you notice that MMfA didnt include the text of what Reid said. They post the quotes of people mocking him and they post a sob story from Reid's past but not what he actually said. Why, because it makes him look like a bigotted idiot! The more he opens his mouth, the more he looks like one.

        What he said includes these nuggets..."I met with some people while I was home dealing with domestic abuse. It has gotten out of hand. Why? Men don't have jobs."

        and this...."Men, when they're out of work, tend to become abusive,"

        Full clip available on youtube.

        While a SLIGHT uptick in domestic abuse makes sense statistically with a higher unemployment rate. You cant say so broadly that men are abusive and the reason things are out of hand is that men do not have jobs.
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        • Author by mikehuck1976 (February 23, 2010 5:58 pm ET)
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          "I'll say it for you, Harry Reid is incorrect. MOST men do not become violent when unemployed." - MaineMan

          I certainly do NOT think that is what Reid is saying.
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    • Author by MaineiacMan (February 23, 2010 3:31 pm ET)
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      Harry, Harry, Harry. He opens his mouh and says that men become abusive when unemployed but not women, they are fine for the most part. Thanks for the stereotype...jerk!

      Hey Harry, when I get abusive, I choose to use a negro dialect.

      Harry Reid in front of a microphone is a gift that keeps giving.
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      • Author by southerngal (February 23, 2010 3:40 pm ET)
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        Really. Harry Reid, in his endless stream of wordy politicizing has managed to look like an idiot once again.

        And he wonders why he gets mocked.
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        • Author by pros2pros2940 (February 23, 2010 4:13 pm ET)
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          Nowhere near the idiots on the right from Cantor, Boehner, McConnell, et al who wouldn't know truth if it smacked them in the face.

          Reid is far more thoughful than anyone on the right.

          Love how accountable the above liars are and how they and Bush ruined this country for a generation and then some.

          Let's hear them be accountable about how they helped Bush double the debt and leave trillions in debt long into the future.

          Let's hear them be accountable about how they helped lie a country into war.

          The list is endless on how republicans don;t ever seem accountable for anything.
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        • Author by DellDolly (February 23, 2010 4:15 pm ET)
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          Professionals in the field say the same thing that Harry Reid said, and they aren't making any excuses nor offering rationalizations for this behavior. They don't look like idiots.

          Neither does Harry Reid.

          But you sure look like an idiot here, RightON.
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          • Author by southerngal (February 23, 2010 4:21 pm ET)
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            None of you have yet to say this is anything more than an excuse, if you can intelligently, go for it.

            That's what has so many of you irritated at me. Oh well.
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            • Author by whatIthink (February 23, 2010 4:34 pm ET)
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              "Professionals in the field say the same thing that Harry Reid said, and they aren't making any excuses nor offering rationalizations for this behavior." - emphasis added

              And, in a show of how the conservative mind works, Right ON reads this as saying:

              They're just making excuses for domestic violence.

              You can lead a horse to water, you splash the horse with water, you can hold the water right in front of the horses mouth, but if the horse don't want to drink, it isn't gonna drink...then it'll accuse you of never having offered it water.

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            • Author by loonz (February 23, 2010 4:35 pm ET)
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              Excuse for what? He stated a fact.
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          • Author by MaineiacMan (February 23, 2010 4:50 pm ET)
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            I was wondering how long it would take Doll to show up and try to defend the indefensible. Doll, what MMfA is pumping and the stats ARE NOT the same as what Harry Reid said. I mean, no doubt, statistically speaking, it makes sense that there is an uptick in domestic violence when unemployement is high.

            That IS NOT what Harry Reid said. He outright said "Men, when they're out of work tend to become abusive"....not some men, not a few men, just men. That was wrong.

            He also said "It's gotten out of hand. Why? Because men dont have jobs". Again, an over generalized steriotype that is outright wrong.
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            • Author by DellDolly (February 23, 2010 5:00 pm ET)
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              It is not indicting all men.

              What a tool to suggest he said anything like that.

              Professionals in the field say the same thing that Harry Reid said, and they aren't making any excuses nor offering rationalizations for this behavior.

              Neither is Harry Reid.
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              • Author by MaineiacMan (February 24, 2010 9:07 am ET)
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                What a BOGUS excuse. You have AGAIN exposed yourself as a purely partisan hack, jumping in front a train to try and protect the idiocy that comes out of the mouths of politicians with a 'D' next to thier name.

                You wont find me doing the same thing for politicians that do/say stupid things.

                What Reid said was STUPID. He didnt say that there is an uptick in domestic abuse because of high unemployment, which would have been true. He said that "It has gotten out of hand. Why? Men don't have jobs."

                and "Men, when they're out of work, tend to become abusive,"

                You can take your stats and studies and start a fire with them, I'm not denying the stats and they have they have NOTHING to do with the stereotypical and overdramatic representation of a situation by Harry 'open mouth-insert foot' Reid.


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                • Author by DellDolly (February 24, 2010 11:26 am ET)
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                  No, what he said wasn't stupid. It's the same things that professional in the field of domestic abuse prevention say - are they all stupid too?

                  See, that's where your argument crumbles. He didn't say anything different from what professionals in the field say.

                  He was not saying that all men will abuse. He wasn't saying all men abuse.
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                  • Author by MaineiacMan (February 24, 2010 11:53 am ET)
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                    Turn on your brain! Play the youtube clip!

                    You say he didnt say "all"....BIG DEAL!

                    I can repeat myself as much as you repeat yourself Doll.

                    He said - "It has gotten out of hand. Why? Men don't have jobs." and "Men, when they're out of work, tend to become abusive,"

                    He didnt say anything about "some men get abusive" or a "small percentage of unemployed men get abusive"...he said "men" ...get it....men, men, men.

                    You'd jump all over a right winger even if he said had stats to back it up and said (for example) that "car accidents while texting is out of control, it has gotten out of hand. Why? Because women cant put down thier cell phones" and "women while driving tend to become easily distracted".

                    Its wrong, its overgeneralized and its sexist, either way.

                    If I said "well he didnt say ALL women"...that would be laughable of a rebuttal as yours is.
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                    • Author by DellDolly (February 24, 2010 9:52 pm ET)
                         
                      Saying men doesn't mean all men.

                      You're cropping what he said in a dishonest way.

                      He was describing men that commit domestic abuse. Not all men.

                      This isn't rocket science.
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                      • Author by MaineiacMan (February 24, 2010 11:02 pm ET)
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                        Have you played the youtube clip yet?! Are you such a partisan robot that you will defend ANYTHING someone with your ideology says?

                        Let me follow your 'illogic' for a minute...

                        You say that saying men doesnt mean 'all men'
                        Glenn Beck once said that 'women are physchos'.
                        So I guess you are OK with that?

                        PS - I noticed that you didnt have a response for my example....if you cant say that Harry was wrong to say what he said, you lose.
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                        • Author by DellDolly (February 25, 2010 12:05 am ET)
                             
                          It would be sexist to single out women.

                          But I would not assume that someone meant that ALL drivers drive negligently because of their use of cell phones if someone said

                          "car accidents while texting is out of control, it has gotten out of hand. Why? Because drivers can't put down thier cell phones" and "drivers tend to become easily distracted".

                          Those sentences above don't indict all drivers - just drivers that actually behave negligently. Just like Harry Reid's comments don't indict all men, just those who commit domestic violence.
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                          • Author by MaineiacMan (February 25, 2010 8:07 am ET)
                               
                            This is absurd. Well guess what Doll, I didnt say 'drivers'....I said 'women' and Harry Reid didnt say 'people' tend to get abusive...he said 'men'. Get it...men tend to become abusive. Now you are trying to tell me that he what he actually meant to say was that "men that tend to become abusive actually do become abuse when unemployed"???? Do you want to keep twisting logic?

                            By the way, I didnt mean ALL women when I said that about cell phones...LOL...I just meant that women who tend to become distracted with cell phones while driving actually do become distracted while driving. See how easy it is to point out the absurdity of what you are trying to defend? I cant wait to jump on the next example of you commenting on something sexist and stupid that a 'right-winger' says. I'll just have to say "well just like Harry Reid, he didnt mean all__________"
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        • Author by loonz (February 23, 2010 4:25 pm ET)
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          It's just another reason for conservatives to attack intelligence and reality. You guys live in a made up world.
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      • Author by jackalope (February 23, 2010 3:40 pm ET)
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        In the face of the conventional wisdom that facts are mostly created by Fox News, I would offer: The Personal is Political--and Economic: Rethinking Domestic Violence, by Deborah Weissman; reviewed in the BYU law review 2007.
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      • Author by peace4all (February 23, 2010 4:09 pm ET)
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        Hey Harry, when I get abusive, I choose to use a negro dialect.

        now there is a nice racist statement. must suck to be you and have so much animosity towards people of color. especially as you are quickly becoming the minority in this country. i guess you better hope that when people of color do become the majority that they will be more tolerant than you creeps on the right. man, i am so sad for you being the little petty man you are.

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        • Author by MaineiacMan (February 23, 2010 4:42 pm ET)
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          Ever heard of sarcasm? That was a prior gaff that came out of Reid's mouth. Wake up. By the way, what makes you think that I'm not black and that I have 'animosity towards people of color'? I mean Harry Reid used that phrase as a compliment to President Obama and Obama apparently accepted it as a compliment...LOL!
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      • Author by shaggles (February 23, 2010 5:58 pm ET)
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        I don't think he was in front of a mic when he said that thing about the 'negro dialect.'
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        • Author by MaineiacMan (February 24, 2010 9:09 am ET)
             
          Shaggy....it is on tape, it is his voice....recorded....not just text...not made up. Get it?
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        • Author by MaineiacMan (February 24, 2010 9:10 am ET)
             
          Shaggy....it is on tape, it is his voice....recorded....not just text...not made up. Get it?
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    • Author by rjackson1500@yahoo.com (February 23, 2010 3:40 pm ET)
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      i really believe that the women of the tea bagging movement like to be beaten by the husbands... who as it turns out are also their brothers
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    • Author by rtejon (February 23, 2010 4:33 pm ET)
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      If money issues are behind most failed marriages, then why wouldn't extended unemployment bring out other domestic problems? Seems logical to me, however imprecisely Reid may have stated it in his typical style.

      I think many of the people complaining may not have the most equitable marriage philosophy in practice. Some of them were probably in complete agreement with that declaration by the Southern Baptist Convention in recent years, saying that wives must "submit" to their husbands.
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    • Author by time to fight back (February 23, 2010 4:41 pm ET)
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      Right on is left off on this one. Obviously it is too much of a leap of logic to grasp the "Cause and Effect" of something. You know, like how texting while driving leads to a higher rate of auto accidents. Nobody is excusing the actions of people who are in accidents they caused by texting while driving, the statistical evidence (cause and effect) can lead to remedies.

      You just happen to be a liberal basher and take every opportunity to do your little superior dance. Keep repeating the same thing over and over- isn't that the wingnut M.O.?

      I haven't been to the site in a while and I am surprised at all of the right wing posters here now. Isn't enough that your shills spew lies, hate and invective over the airwaves, now you come here to post your nonsense?

      It's time we start fighting back against the nonsense posted by the right wingers, spewed on the airwaves etc. I say we start going to their sites and calling them out on their lies. We should do the same with all the rightwing TV and radio blowhards. This is a war and is one we must win.

      Time to grow some cajones and fight back against these trd-blossoms.
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      • Author by watershed (February 23, 2010 6:25 pm ET)
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        Forgive me if you know all this.

        Right On is a old poster here. Was once screennamed Tommy. He is a almost obsessive contrarian. But he hasn't taken up a stand like this a while, as far as I know. But I don't come around like I used too, either.

        I totally agree with your stand about conservative ignorance and misinformation. But it's almost not even a left-right thing with him. Tommy just likes to take an opinion that really has almost NO leg to stand on and HOLD ON TIGHT.

        What makes Tommy, Tommy is own personal need to be the contrarian. It's an end to itself

        He's an odd duck and he likes it that way.
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        • Author by southerngal (February 23, 2010 6:32 pm ET)
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          They've all heard it before, I know, many on this board are obsessed with Tommy, with me. It's all cool, I would suggest a life with more depth, but if you must, you must. I am humbled.
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    • Author by RavenRog (February 23, 2010 4:49 pm ET)
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      If Mitch McConnell had said it, liberals would be calling him an idiot and a disgrace too.

      Reading you guys trying to defend the indefensible is hysterical. Like global warming... ; )
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      • Author by eweston8542983 (February 23, 2010 6:39 pm ET)
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        Which liberals, and what named media accesses would they be using?

        What authority deemed GW indefensible?
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    • Author by proudconservative (February 23, 2010 4:49 pm ET)
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      Is it worse when they are unemployed AND watching the Super Bowl?

      By the way, the progressive group, FAIR, was the one to put that crap out for the media to promote!

      Speaking truth to/about progressives with a shout out to 10% unemployed and who know that with the democrat party in power, their chances of finding reid's 'settled science' to be true will only increase. :<

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      • Author by vhw28672478 (February 23, 2010 5:18 pm ET)
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        Gop is a joke
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      • Author by southerngal (February 23, 2010 5:32 pm ET)
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        Great link proudconservative. Liberals reflexively blame something else instead of the person or persons who actually did it. It's in their DNA, they will not just take responsibility and be done with it. It's always something else. This is just more of that.
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        • Author by Johaely (February 23, 2010 7:10 pm ET)
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          Becuase awareness of a problem in order to prevent more is an excuse for it.
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        • Author by hurricaneyankee52983 (February 24, 2010 7:18 pm ET)
             
          wrong on, you and unproudcon are fools,plain and simple.
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      • Author by usappa00 (February 23, 2010 7:54 pm ET)
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        No, getting incredibly drunk all day and betting money on a sporting events could never lead to domestic violence. Never. Right.

        The study is from 1993, and what does it have to do with this post?

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        • Author by proudconservative (February 23, 2010 9:00 pm ET)
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          approppo,

          Because it highlights the ease with which progressives will conjure up lies just to make a point. They did in back in 93 and they do it today in attempts to make political hay.

          As far as Harry Reid's comments, he's disingenuous because he knows this bill cannot address the underlying issues in this terrible enconomy, that government spending hurts job creation where we need it most in the private sector. Whatever money is flushed through this bill to business will be more than made up for in heavy taxation and regulation that will discourage new employment. That's the progressive way...

          His bloviating about abuse and jobs were just part of the incessant din of nonesense that comes out of dc. His comments weren't intended to be insightful, just ramblings to hear himself talk and nothing substantive about fixing the economy.


          I speak truth to/about progressives and often shout out to the likes of harry reid, whose outburst showed he could use an abusive dialect, when he needs to.
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    • Author by watershed (February 23, 2010 6:10 pm ET)
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      Tommy hits it out of the park in one of the oddest threads I have ever seen on MMFA.

      Besides the well pointed out fact that simply naming factors that go into a behavior in order to better understand a behavior doesn't excuse that behavior...

      Where does this "excuse" manifest itself, exactly? In the criminal justice system? Do judges say,"oh well, he was unemployed, so let him off"?

      Where do the crafty abusers use this "excuse" for us dumb liberals to let them off scot-free?

      I would love to know.
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      • Author by southerngal (February 23, 2010 6:17 pm ET)
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        Nowhere, thankfully. Our justice system does not embrace the liberal blame game, thankfully. I doubt any lawyer would walk into a courtroom and try to get his abuser client off by saying he was unemployed, at least not yet. Whew, keep liberals away from them on this please or that will be the next wave.

        And then you will have some like the ones here saying they are only contributing factors and we need to understand better why they beat their spouse, or some such nonsense.

        They don't get off scot-free, not yet anyway, thankfully.
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        • Author by watershed (February 23, 2010 6:28 pm ET)
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          So are you saying that this study is an ATTEMPT to try and get abusers off, though? It's a liberal plot of some kind?

          Is the scientific (I assume this study falls under sociology) attempt to learn causes of behavior an attempt to excuse it?
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          • Author by southerngal (February 23, 2010 6:34 pm ET)
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            I have no idea what is behind this study, you will have to ask its authors I suppose. If it's a liberal plot then it's goal is to get more money out of people for something, for something that always is fixed with more money, but I have no idea.

            It's stupid, whatever it is.
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            • Author by watershed (February 23, 2010 6:41 pm ET)
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              Now, you surely have an opinion on this. I do.

              Mine is- It's a scientific study, so I assume was the goal of the authors was to learn more of the world through the scientific process.

              I think you are saying that to attempt to learn more of the world through science is somehow dangerous.
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              • Author by southerngal (February 23, 2010 6:45 pm ET)
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                Trying to rationalize spousal abuse by saying it's the fault of "contributing factors" may be a scientific process to you, but to me it's shirking responsibility away from the abuser and on to the contributing factors.

                In broader terms, lessons learned in liberalism 101.
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                • Author by watershed (February 23, 2010 6:49 pm ET)
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                  So science is liberal, then?
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                  • Author by southerngal (February 23, 2010 6:49 pm ET)
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                    I never called it science, you did. I called it stupid.
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                    • Author by watershed (February 23, 2010 8:21 pm ET)
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                      But it is a scientific study, no?
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                      • Author by watershed (February 23, 2010 8:39 pm ET)
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                        I will answer. It is.

                        Here is the profile for Michael Benson, author of the study. He's a sociologist. Sociology is a science.

                        http://criminaljustice.cech.uc.edu/employees/bensonm

                        So, this is a scientific study written by a scientist.

                        I ask again, is science liberal?
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                      • Author by DellDolly (February 23, 2010 11:00 pm ET)
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                        Yeah, RightON punches out from his time clock right around 6:45 Eastern time. He's gone.
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                    • Author by overmars jr. (February 24, 2010 1:15 pm ET)
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                      I keep waiting for you to go here to attack the stupid Mr. Harris for offering excuses for domestic violence.

                      http://mediamatters.org/mmtv/201002240020#746739

                      Where, oh where are you, fighter for good and light? Where ever can you be in our time of need?

                      Oh... right. He's not a mentally diseased lefty, so it's okay.
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            • Author by Johaely (February 23, 2010 7:11 pm ET)
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              I have no idea what is behind this study, you will have to ask its authors I suppose. If it's a liberal plot then it's goal is to get more money out of people for something, for something that always is fixed with more money, but I have no idea.


              I think that says enough.
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    • Author by usappa00 (February 23, 2010 6:33 pm ET)
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      I know how abuse happens, it's magic. Or, maybe because people are evil and must be punished. Or, maybe because Satan infested the soul of the abuser.

      Or, maybe its obvious factors like stress and mental illness. Losing your job, and your families livelihood, can lead to major stress which can lead to mental illness. When you lose your job, eventually you lose your health insurance. Stressed out people, off their meds, can lead to dire consequences.

      These factors are just too simple for these idiots to comprehend. They don't care about preventing anything. They care about punishing and destroying peoples lives for the mistakes they make. Until, they make a mistake, and then they cry and turn to God to forgive them.
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      • Author by southerngal (February 23, 2010 6:35 pm ET)
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        This is not about mental illness at all. Nice diversion though.
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        • Author by Old_Benjamin (February 24, 2010 11:29 am ET)
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          No, no, try to remember now you said you don't know...

          I have no idea what is behind this study, you will have to ask its authors I suppose. If it's a liberal plot then it's goal is to get more money out of people for something, for something that always is fixed with more money, but I have no idea.


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    • Author by Space-Pedestrian (February 23, 2010 6:52 pm ET)
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      Interestingly, the minimum wage has historically increased unemployment among the more marginalized members of our society, which perhaps adds fuel to the fire of domestic abuse.
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    • Author by denbengerman (February 23, 2010 7:21 pm ET)
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      I find it utterly disgusting that anyone would accuse anyone, including Senator Reid, of domestic violence forthcoming because the accused points out research data to give emphasis to the need for employment opportunities. Abuse and domestic violence are not jokes. Lives have been lost, trauma from experiencing or witnessing abuse can last a lifetime, and abuse is often learned and repeated by sons of abusive fathers. It takes a man to stand up and say, "no more." It takes a spine to confront it. What does it say about these spineless, uncaring idiots who would try to make fun of a man who knows first-hand the nightmare of domestic abuse?

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    • Author by thundavolt (February 23, 2010 7:25 pm ET)
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      How much would you be willing to bet that most people trying to make this Reid thing look bad have been involved in domestic violence? Especially the Fox people.
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      • Author by D-Man_Scientist (February 24, 2010 12:09 am ET)
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        Were they accusing, or merely mocking. The way it reads to me is that they were making fun of the senator, not seriously suggesting that his losing his job would make him a wife beater. Kind of reprehensible either way, but I don't see a genuine accusation there...
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    • Author by NoNothing (February 24, 2010 1:07 am ET)
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      I don't understand the criticism of Reid. I also don't understand what rightOn is banging on about. Didn't Reid just state the obvious? High unemployment leads to all sorts of social issues, including domestic violence, due to the increased stresses and tensions in relationships it inevitably brings. No-one is condoning it or making excuses for domestic violence.
      Perhaps the unemployment situation should have been given greater priority by Reid and his colleagues. That's the only criticism I would have.
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